I’ve been thinking about this a lot—I think we just don’t know what’s “normal” for sexual orientation and gender identity, because we’ve spent so many generations forcibly preventing people from asking these questions about themselves that it seems rare to us when people refuse to accept the answers that society…

So happy to be in that movie theater & then I wondered...why didn’t a woman write the script? Can you imagine those actresses in a movie written by “Killing Eve” writer? Or any other of the amazingly talented female story-tellers currently at work? I wanted those actresses to have smarter words coming out of their…

Holt can come. But he better be out of uniform and he better bring Kevin and Cheddar. Also, he must make approving-but-diminutive comments on everyone’s dress, ET-style.

In Ireland, the Pride organisers have specifically said that this year’s Pride is also for all the people/women who fought for reproductive rights, to commemorate the repeal of the anti-abortion 8th Amendment! Excellent queer-feminist solidarity, and as a member of both groups, I’m even more hyped for Pride than usual!

My wish is that they will start a weed baking show. Basically like the Great British Show but where people make edibles and Martha Stewart and Snoop give critiques while already being high.

Having watched their “cooking” show, I love this. I’m here for it. I want them to fall in love and for her to turn into a full blown pot head decked out in gold jewelry and rolling with him everywhere he goes. Bahahaha! Cracking myself up right now.

At my previous job there was a guy who took his wife’s name. He said he grew up in a foster family that he never really felt a part of and his wife’s family was always welcoming. I thought it was a sweet, meaningful gesture but boy-oh-boy did he get crap for it from other people. On the other side, my mom kept her…

This has me SHOOK. I read Michelle’s book and was horrified that someone who committed so many atrocities was never caught— and 40-something years later, wasn’t likely to ever be caught. I was fucking angry after reading it, thinking of him just sitting out there SO SMUG. I wish Michelle was here to see this day, and…

On days when it feels like we’re regressing, remember this — we used to be okay, even amused, by plot points we now see as awful.

It’s beside your point, but the person would be responsible for the kids for that whole nine hours, sleeping or waking. They can’t just up and leave at any time, and they’d have to deal with it if there was an accident or someone got sick.

This is awful. I was a professional nanny for a long time, and I can tell you that the agency and the other nannies I knew—though admittedly there were only a few—did not approve of au pairs. We had ALL heard horror stories that involved overwork and hound-dog dads who clearly wanted to bang the girl. Nannies, even…

This is absolutely worth celebrating but don’t let the rage die down. She should never, ever have been punished in any way for this, to start with.

Trump and the GOP’s dismantling of the ACA, resulting in the loss of Medicaid expansion, cuts more than a million people off from access to drug addiction treatment programs.

I can’t believe Jane’s rude, snarky response to the 2nd person. “You are a child”? Like, what the fuck even? I’m 35 and sometimes I write quick emails with typos, because who the fuck cares? That doesn’t mean I’m a child. Why is Jane still writing an advice column for Jezebel?

The typo thing=children is unkind. You should not marry this man not because you may be young, based on your typos. You should not marry this man because after hooking up on-again, off-again, fooling around, whatever it was for three years, he can’t know after three months of monogamy if he’ll be satisfied and…

Cranston’s comments really irk me.

I have zero time for handwringing about these guys. Should they be able to have a basic standard of living and one or two people who enjoy them enough to keep in touch? Sure. I’m willing to engage in some advocacy on behalf of poor sex offenders in that vein. Everyone listed already has that, though.

And? He could be lying about the other girl’s behavior in order to keep the work girl on his hook.

Listen to how he talks about the women in his life. That’s how he’ll talk about you after the initial rush wears off.