Literally sign up for any dating app at all—you will see many people looking for dates in open relationships, and if you are willing to state your interest explicitly n your bio, they’ll probably be delighted.

I’ve seen your posts for a long time now, and that is absolutely not how I imagined you. 

He’s from Oregon. The same state that almost imploded over having to pump their own gas. There are probably some 7 year olds walking around looking exactly like him. I’d say he’s between 37 and died 4 years ago. 

This is me. I am pushing 44 years old. I have yelled racist slurs at people exactly zero times.

This is what I meant! But I am also queer, and a lot of apps that aren’t explicitly for LGBTQ people are aggressively heterosexual and I am shown straight women ALL THE TIME on Tinder and Bumble. So I think if you’re a man looking for women who switches briefly to searching for men on one of those, you will see a lot…

Her day off was for policing. But her racism is a full time job. 

I think what most black people really want is just an apology. Just a “Hey, look, I was on some racist bullshit, I fucked up and you’re just a person, my bad.”

I’m assuming everyone needs help. You all need help.

I think you're being a bit generous to our educational system. I would have loved to go to a junior high where you can make up an insult out of the root translation of another person's first name and not have to explain it to the other kids.

This makes you seem sweet and relaxed, but a lot of your descriptives are generic. Share a short story about a road trip, or be more specific about your fav restaurant. You seem nice! Give people more to remember about you.

I think she meant that if you’re a heterosexual male, you switch your settings so you appear to be a hetero female and look at the other hetero male offerings out there - not switch your setting to bisexual or gay man and see what those courting their own gender are doing. As you note, switching your settings to look…

Plenty of lesbians have children.

After reading a whole bunch of these comments, serious question for the straights...uh...are you assuming that lesbians (and other queer women) don’t have penetrative sex? Is this a common belief y’all have?

As a bisexual woman I a) agree, and b) think socialized gender roles have a lot to do with this. Cis men are often so focused on being “the man” in bed and pounding away like a jackhammer that they forget to loosen up and have fun. Their masculinity is tied up in their sexual performance, so many of them are too focuse…

Yes, there seems to be a lot of dancing around the simple fact that straight men are the only ones who don’t care if their partner enjoys sex or not.

“Sorry, fellas: Ladies are much more likely to orgasm when they have sex with other WOMEN, according to new research.”

Yeah, as a woman and a former slut (I say that PROUDLY), I can attest to that. Selfish guys just don’t get better, they don’t learn because they really don’t care about anything past their d*cks. 

OH! This reminded me of a stat I heard the other day. Something about the most miserable women ranked by country with the US being ranked 2 and Australia being ranked 1. I need to go find it....

I believe this whole heartedly.