It’s not impersonal to learn about and try new sex things with your partner. In fact, that is the exact opposite of impersonal.

he said he was also chivalrous

I got the irony. What I’m wondering is, if these feminist man-haters hate men so much, why are they fans of an app about m/f sex?

Self-proclaimed chivalry always gives me pause...

Because the entire tone of the letter screams creep? He makes his wife/relationship sound vaguely like an object (I was put off long before he made that comment) or a job that he’s not nearly as connected to as he things, and then proves that gut feeling correct.

Dude claims to be confident and well adjusted, is neither. Shock!

“am chivalrous (not just an act) every single day”

Well, first of all, equating “feminist leaning” and “man hating” is a big red flag.

But what does that statement MEAN? Because a lot of men, even those here on Kotaku, use those very words in a way meant to be derogatory towards women. There are many ways to question the intended target of an application or game without resorting to loaded language. He could have made specific critique of the…

Plenty of women don’t necessarily know their own bodies and what gets them off best, either. Lack of open conversation about sexual pleasure cuts a lot of ways, and it could be that an app makes the ideas feel “legitimized” or easier to talk to about. It seems like the app is a collaborative thing for the pair of…

Yeah, like I get the “Am I doing something wrong” panic, that can easily happen even if you objectively know facts about female sexuality, but christ dude, an app about helping women enjoy sex makes you worry about feminist leaning man haters? He has some serious issues with women.

The insecurity of some dudes when it comes to their proficiency in bed is truly, truly mind boggling. His wife brings him something that excites her and could make sex a lot more fun for her, and he has a panic attack because it doesn’t revolve around him? The prospect of actually learning about her anatomy and how it…

“and if you get pregnant or infected because you don’t know what you’re doing, go fuck yourself you’re on your own because we just cut all services that could help you”

Yes... and Hell, yes. What a tool.

“Abstinence only,” or “don’t have sex, and when you do anyway, don’t have it well or safely and be scared of everything.”

I treat her very well, I give her preference in nearly everything, and am chivalrous (not just an act) every single day. She makes me very happy, and is very sweet, beautiful, smart and loveable.

Jesus christ...

“One of the things that is never covered in sex-ed are the mechanics of sexual pleasure”

I’m confused... are the “feminist leaning man hater types” for or against this OMGYes...? You can just never tell things with them, dammit.

I find it hard to trust women who don’t have female friends. I would be miserable without my girlfriends. Female friendships are important for mental health.