That person is wrong, and they should feel bad.

Taco Time is a good runner-up. 

Kate, what a timely article. I sometimes forget that you’re based here (sorry :( ). Just this Saturday my husband and I went to Taco John’s just so that I could get my fix. And while I was pregnant, they were one of the few foods I still enjoyed.

You’re very forward in your pedantry regarding the word “foreword”.

What?! No. We are sick and tired of this bullshit. Quite frankly, I’m happy this is coming out now, because if it makes even just one handsy creep rethink going in for that unsolicited hug, it’s a good thing.

I’m still not sure they’re sexualized touches. My pet theory is that women are so infantilized in his mind, that he’s more handsy with younger women in the same way people are more grabby at/with young kids.

As a kid, I definitely noticed that there were no (or few) women in certain events. And it seemed so strange to me, especially snce the reason to bar women was so awfully artificial and patronizing. In the real world, the women I knew were bucked off, thrown, rolled-on, trampled. They worked cows, fixed fence, broke…

Yeah I normally stand up for myself a lot better. I think it must be hormones and anxiety making me so... Timid?

You’re right. I was fed formula and I turned out pretty ok. If there's ever a second baby I think I definitely won't be letting them in my room.

Thanks. In a way I wish this had been my choice from the beginning - I feel like then I’d have more ownership of it. I’m sorry about all the shit you got, but admire you for sticking to your guns and not giving a shit what others think. I'm trying to find the old me who wouldn't give a shit but she seems to have gone…

Thanks so much, PatFanda. One of the things I keep telling myself (that actually helps) is that if it were my daughter in this situation, I’d absolutely stand up for her and make sure she was supported. And if I'd do it for her in 30 years, I should do it for her now by standing up for myself. And you're right this is…

Thank you - sometimes I have moments of clarity and realize that there’s more support than criticism. It’s also really easy for me to forget (or not quite understand) all the hormones I’m experiencing right now. Especially since my pregnancy felt so level. My husband has been a great support, I just can’t quite bring…

I really need to get this off my chest. I gave birth earlier this week. Everything was fairly smooth and quick, but by far the worst and most painful part was breastfeeding. After an excruciating night and several hours with the lactation consultant at the hospital (who was just... terrible) we gave in to formula. And…

I had the ligament pain pretty bad (several days I couldn’t get out of bed). Mine started around 18/19 weeks. It does not go away until you give birth, but I found two things that worked: swimming and acupuncture. I’m pretty skeptical of acupuncture, but it worked miracles.

His manager told TMZ, “[He] always calls me if there’s any problem, and he did not call.”

Talking about drinking a lot and having a keg at work are still a long, long, long way from the utterly devastating and debilitating disease of alcoholism. 

These comments speak to my soul.

Dollar shave club had a pretty inclusive looking ad campaign last summer.

“Well, REAL men aren’t healthy OR happy!”

sad how much of my teens and early 20s was politely waiting for strange men to shut the fuck up