I love that Vanity Fair has been on this for two decades, always sticking to facts, more facts than you can shake a stick at. They're not going to let this just drown in "he said she said", the case is not as vague as people want to imply.

This statement about Ronan is really, really disgusting! Why would he even go there? Just flinging crap to see what sticks. Flinging crap at someone he's always supposedly acknowledged as his child.

Athletes consume a high amount of calories. They don't exercise all day and eat 1600 calories, more like 5000.

when people tell you who they are believe them

I really love it and it actually seems relevant to the show

Wait, "Beautiful Liar" is superior to this in every possible way. And they weren't faux lesbians in that video, they were playing up how similar they look which is more creative and fun than the dead-eyed mess out now.

Can you not?

But many don't survive

It just hurts how much women are hated.

Um no, vocals are an art and interpretation is a singer's bread and butter. It's her song, on her album.

You're projecting. The only one lecturing is you! This whole comment is a lecture. And there is no more boring, condescending a lecture than talking about someone else's tone. There is no actual content to anything you're saying. Nothing on topic. Please address what people say not how they say it.

I agree that nutrition and exercise can help someone feel better about their body, but not if those things are tied to weight. In this case, it doesn't sound like her friends are wishing they were as strong as her or liked vegetables more. Because she could tell them her strength routine or share some recipes. It…

She's not trying to 'fix' them. They make comments about her body and put themselves down so she's trying to support their desire to be in better shape without hurting their feelings. As of now, she sees them as beautiful.

I exercise and track everything I eat and eat right and I'm obese and always have been. The letter writer doesn't sound like someone who has ever been as fat as her friends so it's not like she can actually offer advice on how they can be as thin as her. They actually can't be as thin as her doing the same things she…

The person with the greater privilege can bear the brunt of the discomfort, rather than the person with the disadvantage having to swallow their feelings, that's what it seems sarah is saying. And also the person with the greater privilege not lying and denying that privilege, with thoughts like "oh you're totally…

I don't really care why anyone is fat so I can't really address most of your comment. The letter writer actually agrees with her friends that their fat is a problem, she just doesn't like it when they point it out. Trying to assure them that they are fine while at the same time trying to change the very thing they…

sarah, you know how research shows depressed people actually have a more realistic view of the world and their problems than those who are not depressed? And how optimists are unrealistic yet also more successful? I don't know if you're depressed or feeling pessimistic in general, I just wanted to acknowledge the…

When people have a privilege, and thin is privileged in America, they often act like pointing it out is the same as saying they have no problems at all. Then they take it to the extreme and claim the privilege is actually a liability. If the letter writers friends are bringing up her weight when irrelevant to dismiss…

I don't think you're a troll. I don't think your thought pattern is healthy for you but I don't deny where you're coming from. I've felt exactly like you. I get what you're saying about the messages from society with regard to beauty, weight and porn usage. It can make a person feel crazy for people to claim fat is…

No you didn't waste anything, I just had to comment and thank you CylonLover for handling all of this so eloquently and with such intelligence. This entire conversation has been epic. There is a white woman providing a textbook, basic example of the problem many black women have with white feminism. I mean, it's just…