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Since dating is not a democracy, it's not racist to have a preference for a person of similar background. But... when people say stuff like "I don't find Asian men attractive," I have to wonder, did you really need to communicate that shit to me? It's called an inner life — that's where you put those thoughts you

Holtzclaw, an Oklahoma City police officer, is alleged to have forced eight women, all of them black, to have sex with him or face arrest.

Wonder why they did the Library of Congress and not the new African American History Smithsonian that's opening in a couple of years.

hating direct conflict is different than being passive aggressive. i am aggressively passive aggressive.

Ugh, I'm so glad I'm not a kid these days. All their idols are lame.

A 40 OZ TO FREEDOM IS THE ONLY CHANCE I HAVE TO FEEL GOOD EVEN THOUGH I FEEL BAD

Hmmm...I seem to remember sports commentators saying Serena was too old and too out of shape/fat/not hot enough for their boners. I'm looking at you Whitlock.

Wait. I feel so ignorant! Otters can live away from the sea? And on a non-fish diet? And also: gaaaaahhhhhhhh! When he makes it to the table and rolls around, I just about lost it. How does the videographer not cover him with kisses??

She's amazing!

My new puppy's favorite rawhide is "buffalo pizzle"... which I had to Google. It's a god damn BUFFALO PENIS. I'm really not sure how I feel about this. I've been spoiling her rotten, trying to find toys and rawhides that she'll like because she stuck her nose up at a few things that have since been donated to my Mom's

Don't forget to credit her doctors.

Yup. Thanks. Transphobic, racist, vile. But she gets special treatment because...

The new editor starts this month, right? Maybe Lindy's leaving to protest Dodai having been passed over for that position. Oops, did I say that out loud...?

Stuff like this makes me so wary of dating men. These men who spew hatred towards women online are people we all know: our coworkers, neighbours, friends, current and ex boyfriends. The Internet just allows them the freedom to go on verbally abusive tirades and say hateful, sexist things they wouldn't have the courage

Would you be eulogizing her with such passion if she had said that all those unarmed teens who were killed the last few summers by police and wannabe police "deserved to be dead" because of their "low IQs?". Honestly asking.

Learning a little empathy for women isn't the hard part. The hard part is unlearning all the fucked up social norms that suggest it's OK - or even admirable - to treat women as nothing more than sex objects.

My experience is that the sorts of people who admit terrible things and thoughts are people who've lived lives of privilege and know there will never be consequences for them. Morality and common sense don't apply to them.

For me, dealing with my abusive ex, it wasn't the actual physical and sexual violence that hurt, the most painful part was dealing with the judgment and everyone else involved. It's like an incomplete murder in that it kills a part of your soul, but the final part that kills you is how everyone else reacts to it, and

Why was she silent before this?

I love etiquette and I think it can be very useful in encouraging respectful, considerate behavior - but some traditions just need to die, and this is one of them. Address people the way they want to be addressed! That is etiquette.