The Beyonce and unidentified...Cold Bobby. Damn cold.

I like that series but some are episode are pretty hit and miss aren’t they?

I’m kind of impressed she hashtagged him correctly.

Me too. I’m in the getting to know the guy sexually period - you know, where you see how far you can take it and I think he’s like me.

Yeah that surely adds a frisson of excitement to things. I was actually telling that to the guy I’m sleeping with. That extra naughtiness must surely increase some adrenaline release.

Hmm definitely sounds interesting! Though yours sounds sexy cause it was probably after hours and after the machines were wiped down. Wouldn’t want to imagine having sex on someone else’s stank sweat (besides from own or my sex partner of course).

Book tickets immediately!

In what way is the equipment fun in sexy times?

I’ve barely seen the inside of a gym, let alone have enough time to have sex in one.

Yes I think the problem mainly lies with me and my insecurities. I need to do some soul searching and see what I am comfortable with.

Well he has said that whatever we have he wants it to be honest.

How do you control your jealousy in such a relationship?

Yeah basically crapping myself about this. Because when we’re together it just feels right. And we’ve been in touch for the whole time he’s been away, for hours every day. So i think he may be somewhat interested. I dont want to rock the boat. It’s also too early. But it also sucks that im feeling this way.

I don’t want to hurry things as it is early days. Plus i think i know the answer. He wants to meet and see me and see where it goes but he’s keeping his options open and wants me to do the same and just not tell him because he’d get jealous. There’s also the dynamic that he’s much older (37) and im late twenties...i…

I could totally get on board with that...but it wasn't particularly fun

I want so badly!

Yes i think that’s what is scaring me. I also came out of a very long term relationship a few months ago. First time we met i had told him i didnt think i was ready for a relationship and he agreed. So many mixed emotions.

Sure :)

I also feel like I’m being irrational but I cannot help it.

I feel like I’m over-reacting and it’s driving me nuts.