Fellow female intactivist here.

I find it really infuriating that so many of my fellow feminists are just like "LOL DICKS" about this issue.

She sounds pretty damn happy to me.

I like how you're getting all pissed that other people have different bodily functions and/or different sexual preferences from you.

Well, like you said, we can't tell you what you are. But we can talk about our experiences and maybe help you figure it out a little bit. For context, I am a lesbian.

I have never needed an abortion and was never at risk for needing one as a teenager (lesbian) but I thought about how I would handle it if I ever did. Hands down, would have rather died in a back-alley abortion than tell them. And I stand by that.

I know, right? What the fuck? Two years? If nothing else, this person is a danger to the public.

My only hangup, really, is this

She says racist things on twitter sometimes. I've had an image compilation posted at me a couple of times over the past few days so I'm sure someone will waft in and post it at you too.

I know, right? People enjoy different things sometimes. Someone enjoying something differently than how you enjoy it does not mean their way is wrong or inferior!

I eat like this. Apparently I'm a man.

I love how people are all like "but she's racist so it's okay."

...to me that sounds incredibly reasonable and realistic.

Yes! This was my immediate thought on seeing this title.

Lifelong BDSMer.

The music isn't even sort of similar. I'm a big Sara Bareilles fan but that allegation is just eyeroll-worthy. The songs have similar themes, that's all.

They're romantically attracted to all genders, but they're only sexually attracted to people with whom they have already formed a deep emotional bond.

I really dislike this constant politicization of sexual orientation.

I've never read the book, and I don't really plan to as it doesn't sound like something I'd enjoy, but I find this kind of sneering aversion fad incredibly annoying. You know why the book's popular? Because people enjoyed it. It doesn't have to be high-brow, it doesn't have to be a great contribution to the culture of…

Couple things could be causing this: