This is how I feel when people freak out at this

You don't have to say something in so many words to imply it. You cannot possibly be obtuse enough to not understand that. I even specifically pointed out the exact words and the implication. Don't be dishonest.

As a woman who identifies as a man

Lol, my grip is fine, thanks.

Yes, I read the words that were actually there. Trans women can be inside the beauty norm, hon.

I like that you just implied that trans women are ugly.

It's a tad weird that you're repeatedly insisting they're all cis. You really can't tell from looking at someone whether they're cis or trans a lot of the time. There's no real reason to think a trans woman couldn't work at Hooters.

No, they're not saying slightly mentally challenged people shouldn't eat out, they're rightfully saying that it's not acceptable to make your anxiety the problem of the people around you.

That's not true at all and is a really harmful myth to perpetuate.

I had the opposite experience, but my psychiatrist is just generally lovely so it might be that.

Protip: If you have to insist that you're a nice guy, you are not a nice guy.

If it weren't about your tastes, you wouldn't be "trying to convince her" of anything. You would let her know if that if she's doing it for you, she doesn't have to cuz she's beautiful as unicorn poop or whatever, and then respect her decision to keep doing it.

The warning is very much appreciated. Thank you.

This is an excellent scale.

Oh great, the "lol it's just a jooooooooooke" shit.

This is seriously unhinged.

I don't really get what your point is, though? Sexual health is actually pretty serious business. Obviously none of this should be used as an excuse to not use a condom, but I don't think it's helpful to pretend that genuine sizing/fit issues don't exist.

I'm a (cis, do not and have never had a boner) lesbian. I also have empathy and am not a giant asshole. Please refresh my post and read my edit.

There are legitimately dudes who need to use magnums because the regular size hurts. This is not a made-up thing. I have no doubt douchebags use it to pretend their dicks are bigger than they are, but can we not shit all over non-douchebag dudes in the process?

I have a guy friend who has to use magnums because regular condoms squeeze his dick and fucking hurt.