I'm pretty fucking miserable. I'm definitely looking for a new job. Which sucks, because I really liked this one before all this happened.

That would be great, actually. I'm not super familiar with groupthink, but I'm taking this pretty poorly, so any forum on which to discuss it would be appreciated.

My company dismissed my sexual harassment complaint yesterday, because my coworker, who witnessed almost all of it, lied and said none of it happened.

I've had the occasional fantasy about various "freaky" things, but, to be honest, the only real thing that gets my jets revving is the fantasy of sex with someone with whom I've formed a significant emotional bond. It's absolutely not that I think there's anything wrong with fun sex just for the sake of sex, it just…

Pshht. People were mildly sarcastic to you until you started "defending" yourself by doubling down on assholery.

Being an asshole. See, if you weren't trying to be one, you would have apologized for the communications error and moved on. I said this already.

Because that's what grown-ups do. They take responsibility for fucking things up.

Yes it is. In this context, it's judgemental and obnoxiously sanctimonious. You'll notice that flocks of people all came to tell you the same thing, so if you didn't mean to be a fucking asshole, you should probably work on your communication skills. The rest of the world does not agree with you on what your sentences…

What I really love is the repeated, "but all I said was <incredibly douchey thing>!"

I hope the cat survived but that I also hoped th people donating remember that there are more important things that need to be donated to as well

my opinion that there are more important things to donate to than one injured cat is poorly thought out, immature and unethical?

Your opinion is poorly thought out, immature, and unethical, so it deserves some shame. If you say stupid things, people will tell you they're stupid. This is not some great injustice. You are not entitled to spout of any idiotic thing that pops into your mind free from criticism.

The most important thing, when you see someone doing something good, is to figure out a reason why they're not really as good as they seem.

I remain utterly baffled as to why Sarkeesian is always held up by these folks as the worst of feminism. She's so reasonable and moderate all the time. There are plenty of legitimately awful die-cis-scum-style radical "feminists" out there (of which, imo, Zoe Quinn is one) and Anita Sarkeesian is nothing like them.…

I think I'm going to go ahead and follow your example there. Because WHAT DID I SAY ABOUT THEIR BAD VIBES?

Right? I want to find this girl and have weird doge-meme sex with her.

It isn't emotionally expressive and it lacks dynamics. It certainly is not sloppy. There's a certain kind of skill to balancing different types of notes and tempos to elicit different emotional reactions in the listener. Arch Enemy is just LOUD and FAST and as much LOUD as FAST AS POSSIBLE.

It's great right? Like, okay guy, nobody cares about your stupid opinion.

I would love to be your inaugural involuntary self-pee-er.

I KNOW RIGHT. WHAT IS THIS FUCKING MAGIC?