I mean what took so long

I didn't realize - I will get a notepad and pen.

Everyone please pipe down, a man is talking.

+1. I had a friend who dated a guy with kids and her biggest complaint was that his kids always came first. What. The. Fuck. Isn't that the kind of guy that you want to have around? That being said, I don't know why anyone in their 20's would date someone with kids if it could be avoided. It just doesn't seem…

Only the Big Momma's House movies.

How dare she remind him that he has children! For realz though - aren't they not even divorced yet? That said, of J-Law wants to be doted on in a new relationship, especially at 24, I totally get it. She just shouldn't be dating a dude with kids (which it seems like she figured out).

I'm sure it is pure gossip, but damn right Goop should be calling her ex and reminding him of his parental duties. All too often one parent likes to forget they are a parent when their marriage ends and they find a new exciting relationship. If you are dating a parent and you AREN'T in second place, then I am judging…

if I was divorcing the father of my children, I would make sure he spent time with them also. Kids need their parents. You can't just go chasing after members of the opposite sex and forget about your children, what kind of parent/person does that make you. And if your new squeeze wants to spend time with the kids,…

Sometimes even just the appraising looks get to me. Men looking you up and down deciding whether they would fuck you, their eyes crawling all over your body uninvited. I'm not talking about a quick check-out, I'm talking about the ones who feel entitled to stare openly, and there are many. There are some days I wish I…

I will reluctantly high-five you for that.

my fiancée has always been a big fan of Paul Rudd since his Clueless days, so she loves to think of the resemblance*

The ones who give full bars or full size Hostess products are the ones I defend to my last breath during the zombie apocalypse.

Oh man, "But I'm a cheerleader" is by far one of my favorite movies. Good on yea on the gifs.

Bill Cosby had an influential role in bringing the idea of a black middle class to our living rooms once a week. That's awesome. Bill Cosby has a history of alleged rapes. That's decidedly un-awesome. Human complexity is a lot harder to describe than three clauses.

I get REALLY nasty comments on various sites when I post reminders to Cosby fanboys about Bill's predilection for drugging and fondling young women.

If you want to hear something totally rage inducing, go to KCRW online and listen to a segment of a show called "The Business" with the man who wrote the cosby biography. His excuses and dissembling about why he did not include ANY of the multiple accounts of sexual assault by Cosby was just disgusting and…

Dude, none of us knew any of that shit while it was happening! I thought he was awesome until the first day I heard about all those allegations— after which he quickly got feet of clay and fell right out of the pantheon. It's always a shame when someone you thought was righteous turns out to be a monster.

Eh, don't conflate idiocy with not knowing. Cosby and people who support him have done a great job of obscuring a lot of these stories beneath his folksy mythos.