Anger is dangerous in a union and this is something we all should learn from.

I understand this, but the logistics of this are insane. Do you announce it’s started, and then announce it’s stopped? Do you self-banish after the first time?

The ONLY good thing about this whole horrendous (yet utterly unsuprising) story is that this guy is infertile and will not be spreading his shitty DNA to anyone else. Good. Fuck you, dude. I am so glad you won’t get to have kids. You don’t deserve to have any.

Your situation sounds horrible. Fuck your abusive POS husband. Is there anything I can do to help?

Depending on the flow and your anatomy, they aren’t foolproof. Which is the same issue with tampons - you do have to change them with the appropriate frequency for your flow that day.

Just to add fuel to your stroke...

To hell with that fucking pastor “after all the effort we put in” what fucking effort they put in, “anger is dangerous in an union” fuck him really, like she had something to do with the monster who cut her hands.

Men really need to learn how to control their emotions.

Just one of the horrible things about this story is that everyone says “the couple was fighting” when it sounds like he was beating and abusing her, mostly while drunk. That is not “a fight.”

Fuck, this is why, no matter what happens in my life, I’m glad I left the church. It’s always about submission to authority, no matter if that authority deserves it or not. And it always centers around the man of the church, man of the family. If shit is bad, it always comes down to being somehow YOUR fault, for not…

He’s partially responsible for what happened. Fuck these pastors telling women to stay with infantile and abusive men. I hope he gets eaten alive by bullet ants, or whatever large jawed species of hive-mind insects live in their area.

MASCULINITY SO FUCKING FRAGILE

Agree. The minute cops were called to the house and she told them she was afraid of her husband, he should have been arrested and charges filed automatically.

Also, she told the cops she was scared of her husband. And they left, didn’t arrest him. It also shouldn’t be up to her to file charges and get a restraining order, that shit should be automatic the minute the cops are called and it’s obvious that the guy is an abuser.

Take the weapons. But I would also make the restraining orders and charges automatic, not something the women can decide not to pursue. I mean, police were called and she told responding officers that she was scared of her husband. Honestly, police should be obligated to arrest the bastard and maybe use some kind of…

She was doing everything right. She was planning to leave him and had already acquired housing.

Yes... And Why aren’t more domestic violence calls ending in psych holds? It’s something that is legally viable, no one’s rights are abused, an abused partner is given that 72 hours to determine if she/he wants to leave. It also gets them away from the guns. If we won’t take the guns away from them.

It will never happen, but when the police are called to a domestic dispute, they should remove any and all firearms from the house, every time, regardless of whether someone is arrested. You should have to apply to get them back, and have your spouse sign that application.

Except not. Victims who get orders of protection from their abusers are actually more likely to be attacked again, and the reason for it is because they got the order of protection. The abuser sees it as a violation of their control and will simply ignore it to further victimize the person who got the order in order…

Yup. It’s so simple, yet apparently for some an impossible concept to grasp. Some people are just not stable enough to be in charge of a killing machine. In fact, most people are not.