so much for having a mature discussion! being critiqued is how own grows - and you have shown no such desire to here so you will remain stuck in your misinformed and retrograde ways. good luck to you.

Thanks for reaching out. Some of the responses left me a little lonely by insisting our love for our mothers is somehow wrong or misguided because they drink and hearing from you reassured me that while our love may be complicated it is very real. Thank you. All my well wishes to you.

That was a lot of words for: let me continue on in stripping rape survivors of their sexual autonomy. Nuanced conversation is absolutely fundamental when discussing consent and healthy intimacy but I am NOT here for your implicit infantalization of rape survivors which is exactly what you are doing when you question…

Your anger should be directed at the justice system then- not Nicki who just did exactly what the legal system endorses and mandates. Focusing on the actions of Minaj over and against a more nuanced perspective and discussion is unproductive and nonsensical.

I think we all needto understand that Minaj is simply doing what our legal system permits and frankly endorses. The government set a bail and she paid it- not exactly going above and beyond in the way being discussed here. If we want to talk about injustice let’s focus on the real culprit- the legal system- not a…

I think the conversations regarding the minja bailing out of her brother are disappointing for a number of reasons. The rape of a child is unthinkably heinous and as a survivor of rape I too want “justice to be served.” That being said, I find the comments admonishing Minaj with no regard to the emotional turmoil she…

I don’t even know where to begin.... You just wrote that if you knew your brother was guilty of raping a child you would simply want to just talk it over in person? Not only is that a ridiculously out of touch idea about the nature of such a crime but a completely ignorant take on the emotional trauma invoked with…

Loling great tv moment

Thank you, and I’m sorry you’ve experienced the hurt of a mother. It’s for sure a particular type of pain. Sending hugs and love your way :) <3

I just hope you have learned one thing: and it is not to compare headresses with sunglasses - especially when commenting on an article that covered a clearly islamaphobic action being taken. and then chill out, a lot.

dude chill I am just having fun and you are getting wriled up so quickly. I was simply laughing at how akward that sentence was. this entire back and forth has been be lightly poking holes in your comments but if you would like me to really address them I would be happy to do so.

Loling

its your implicit logic / structuring reasoning. I’m not trying to fight with you at all - just have a discussion. another problem with our movements is that we all fear critique so much and act as if critical thought is aggressive or otherwise intolerable. critique is how we grow.

I don’t think you are right about that. Using logic like that sets up a dynamic in which some sex acts are more “free” or “liberated” or “real” than others, meaning it becomes a logic of valuation and control. Our histories of oppression should be all the evidence we need to steer clear from any sort of ideology that…

*hits head against wall* - no point in discussing things with you as you are seriously lacking critical thinking skills. Shit.

“Caitlyn as Bruce” bye.

Lol i’m 5’11” and 140 pounds sooooo fat. Not that there is anything wron with being fat so bye!!

And you are somehow more outside of “culture” than those you denigrate? You are so misinformed. Put down your second wave dogma and join us in the real world where complexity and agency are celebrated not denied

I get what yr saying but there is such a lack of depth and complexity to your argumentation. Your logic leaves no room for agency and negotiation. Think about your logic and what it means outside of whatever you think you're saying. I am a queer lesbian rape survivor and I am so so saddened by all of these…

Oh fuck off- is Bradley Cooper a murderous sniper assailant? Bye