That’s not the point. He wouldn’t even be in the press for Jezebel to report on if he’d enacted his fetishes privately with informed, consenting partners instead of springing them on random unsuspecting IG models.

SOME women prefer tall men. I personally would not want to date a tall man as I’m short myself. My paternal grandparents had over a foot height difference and I felt it was awkward. I prefer a man where my cheek is at his shoulder and that’s exactly the height difference between myself and my husband.

Probably ‘meetups.com'

Porn deals with sex. As much as I want to, it’s difficult to blame the entire failure of relationships on just porn.

I mean, the problem with your approach is that you’re essentially talking about pretending to be someone else. You can’t pick 10-12 characteristics and “make” yourself have them if you don’t. All you can do is fake it, and women aren’t stupid. If, beneath the behavior, you don’t respect women/don’t like to…

Yeah, this is really weird. You (by which I mean the OP) don’t need to have a checklist of 10-12 qualities that all women are looking for. Just don’t be a total asshole, take care of basic hygiene, and be willing to let connections develop naturally. Go out with friends and have a good time, and if you meet someone…

You could have 100 women write down 10 things they are looking for from their ideal partner, compile that data and create a list of 10 or 12 things that women are looking for, become the ideal embodiment of those things, make it your life’s work to make sure that you have those 10 or 12 characteristics, and you can…

“You could have 100 women write down 10 things they are looking for from their ideal partner, compile that data and create a list of 10 or 12 things that women are looking for, become the ideal embodiment of those things, make it your life’s work to make sure that you have those 10 or 12 characteristics, and you…

I watched the way my mother and aunts, who were independent and funny women, bent under their relationships with men and it forever skewed the way I view hetero relationships. I also found myself falling into that pattern when my mom died and I was trying to look after the family.

I’m not pulling him out of the greys but boy do you have a sad cucky-clucking troll down there. Personally, I think we should clone guys like you (with your consent) and have them teach classes, but what do I know? I’m just a woman, after all.

Wow, this is telling me that is time to invest in building one-bedroom small apartments so people can afford to live alone.

Happily married man here.

Not for nothing, but expectations for childcare alone perfectly demonstrate how men are “mediocre.” Guy gets a standing ovation for picking up his child from school and “babysitting” while mom is out. MOM is the one that likely had to tell him to pick up the kid and schedule pickup privileges with the school- and if…

This is exactly right. The guys who throw themselves at you and make it easy are, by and large, totally gross. You gotta hunt for that diamond if you’re a woman, and it’s a hell of a lot more effort than most guys are willing to put in.

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For decades, sitcoms and other fiction have gotten a ton of mileage out of the “spinster” archetype for crafting jokes. Something tells me we aren’t going to see aging cat-gentlemen become the new butt of the joke however.

Good. Do better, mediocre men.

“How am I supposed to know what you like?! I’m not a mind reader!”

“Matos says he regularly holds roundtable-like discussions with women ages 25 to 45, and hears that they “prefer men who are emotionally available, good communicators, and share similar values.”

I dated a lot before I got married.