LEAVE SANDWICH GUY ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!

He looks like a twee Alexander Skarsgård.

And that is not a compliment.

Dude looks like he polishes knobs on the side.

Hotness is totally different to everyone. And you know what? I hope she ends up with the 6'4 muscles guy. Because let me tell you... I'm curvy (I do also workout to build muscles/tone) and some of the most physically fit guys are into me. They love how I look and my personality. This guy sounds like he's insecure as…

In complete agreement about the bleeding/leading thing.

True story...
I had a boss who walked out on his wife when she was eight months' pregnant to move in with a stripper. They'd married young. She was a teacher. He made partner with a big firm and made tons of money so they agreed that she'd stay home and raise the kids. He decided at some point that she was fat (ie…

Male Entitlement Culture. It makes you feel like the most special snowflake in the world until real life barges rudely in and says hey, your girl is pulling soooo much more then you could ever dream of.

Yup. She's seen the light. She's wiser now, like a genetically manipulated shark. He clearly has no idea she's gone despite the fact that they haven't spoken since his childish demand of her to stop seeing someone she clearly liked (and probably likes more than him at this point). But yea, that is no longer a…

Yup. Well I wouldn't say 99%, but there are men who aren't interested in relationships, they want women as commodities - some for sex, others for service or emotional support. They just don't see us as people.

Maybe she's into that. Don't want to be mean but I've met plenty of women that only dated assholes. One woman in my social circle is like that. Her bf is a huge asshole. Puts her down in public. Ignores her. Probably hits her too (I don't have any evidence of this). She's gorgeous and has tons of guys hitting on her.…

i think it's particularly evil that he hates her body so much. that shit is just.....evil. evil evil evil. why are you with someone YOU DON'T WANT TO FUCK? only men do this shit. it's so stupid.

*nods* I will have to accept that.

I think it's safe to assume that self-esteem is definitely a factor here. She would never have agreed to something that made her so desperately unhappy if it weren't.

He lost her at "let's have an open relationship." Should have known it at the first teardrop.

That is not what this guy was doing. He was clearly trying to find someone that he thinks was "better" than his "fat" girlfriend before actually dumping her, but then was surprised that hot women didn't want him. Hmm, could that maybe be because women don't see a future with some dude that already HAS a girlfriend…

You can't "re-close" that relationship, buddy, that ship seems to have sailed. I think some couples can save themselves after an "open relationship experiment/debacle" but it takes way more closeness and maturity than this guy has.

He's lost her. He doesn't know it yet but he has. Game over dude.

"An anonymous dude is very upset that, after he maneuvered his "big girl" girlfriend into an open relationship so he could score with mad babes, she's getting loads more dates than him."

Yes. What's hard to understand?