I TOTALLY forgot about that. Good call.

I hate that I know this but David Spade was on that 8 Things show after Ritter passed. So I think they may be old friends.

This exactly. When I was dating my now wife during college, she lived in Illinois and I lived in Maine during the summers. One summer some guys were asking me how the hell I leave her alone for three whole months. I simply replied that I trusted her. They looked at me like I had three heads. Some people just don’t…

I thought I would find overwhelming support for the advice offered to the first guy, but... I was wrong. Just because you’re in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean you get to authorize their platonic day-to-day interactions. Talking to people without your knowledge isn’t some cloak and dagger clandestine way to…

“Sluts it up”

Talk about the books those women wrote. What you enjoyed about them. What you disliked about them. Recommend their books to other people. Start book clubs that feature them.

Hi, normal lurker, first time commenter, and German.

@Mia: ALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT

I often am stuck with a “I ain’t got the spoons for this shit” day and I have, on more than one occasion, awarded myself with a fancy coffee or a cookie just for taking a shower or brushing my teeth. Because there was a time in my life where those things didn’t happen for far longer than I’m comfortable revealing…

Okay so I know you were talking about, you know, ‘THE NORMAL’ healthy humans BUTTTTTT...

Because consensual BDSM play has nothing to do with actual rape. Many sex-positive feminists engage in BDSM without it conflicting or cancelling out their feminist politics.

Lots of women have rape fantasies. Please remember that kink shaming is not okay, and neither acting in nor viewing videos simulating rape is an endorsement of actual rape.

all of these things please.

did I ever tell y’all that my boss built me this shoddy lean-to like cubicle in our warehouse, so my walls are all 2by4s and metal siding. There is no natural light. So my best friend got me a large painting of a scenic river and added a pink squid tenacle coming from the water and UFOs in…

Don’t cry because it’s over, cry because I’m going to grey the shit out of everyone before I go.

What’s interesting about that is any story about the suffrage movement should have a number of African-American actors because suffrage and abolition ran hand-in-hand for quite a while. You have to choose to tell parts of the story that don’t include abolition.

I don’t know if you can call it homophobia if it’s coming from people who fall into the LGBT umbrella.

And there’s a big part of it that doesn’t. Me included.

The point is that the person in the video/photo does not identify as man or woman, neither masculine or feminine, so the fact that they are showing both masculine features (stubble) and feminine features (make up, dresses) is in line what the “vibe” they are going for. They aren’t going for a female vibe as you have…

I want to see their 24 hour beauty diary. That lipstick!

this is highly reductionist. colloquial usage of words shifts and changes over time, especially when marginalized groups reclaim them. it’s valid.