The most amazing movie ever. Christina Ricci, James McAvoy, Burn Gorman, Peter Dinklage...I could go on and on about this movie.

Doing this dance around the office.

BEST COMPLIMENT EVER.

I was just explaining it's my 5th favorite in my collection of 250+.

Aw...shucks. Honestly, it's not that hard to be awesome when the comparison is a guy that's doing the verbal equivalent of this in front of a classroom of people.

Allow me.

Again, neither of them want to procreate...or so he demands of her. So, moot point.

Win. He's off the market, and so is someone who's willing to put up with him. And neither of them want to procreate. Two less idiots in bars staring at you.

All the hugs and love from my corner. I know it's not an easy thing to do, but you really are being a good life partner by supporting him through this. He needs to make the decision to get healthy on his own, and you cannot hold yourself responsible for his progress. All you can do is celebrate or commiserate with…

PERFECT.

I'm gonna be brutal, then I'm gonna be sympathetic.

That sounds like OCD (fair warning, I am not a medical professional but I have had some awesome therapy and I went to school to be a teacher so I was trained how to be a mandated reporter). That goes beyond just wanting things the way that he prefers and it does impact your life if you feel guilty when he's obsessing…

But...I mean, I get wanting to spend time together, fixing up the house, and having hobbies. Those are all good things! However, your body needs downtime. My ex and I used to read aloud to each other a few nights a week because he wasn't huge on TV and I read much faster than he does when left to my own devices.

DTMFA?

Well, given the ambiguity of your post, you were either saying "a gay man performing a sexually-charged act for straight (or assumed straight) women could be degrading" OR "a man performing an act that is generally associated with women could be degrading". You understand why the first one is something worth pointing…

I didn't know that about them! That does make it even more hilarious when they get accused of racism.

For once I'm super glad I came down to read the grays...I hadn't seen either of those,t hank you for sharing!

That's one of my favorite parts of the books. Gender-equal craziness, everyone is a spectacle for consumption.

I think it was like three episodes? That "you're not a 'better woman' than me just because I like glitter and skirts" conversation they had was fucking epic and insightful, for being a silly comedy show. I loved it. I love them both.