Yeah, the thing about drunk dudes is they SPEND MONEY (and lots of it) to annoy the strippers with their oppressive male gaze. Female customers, especially first-timers who were dragged along for a birthday party, are often too busy taking it all in or giggling ironically at the misogynistic spectacle to SPEND MONEY…

Like no, I am not going to honor your thirsty for theatrics request that I carry on! I set the record straight, information is now out there, many of your assumptions were incorrect and now you guys know, and I'm gonna go have fun. An added perspective won't do anything because you're depressing people intent on being…

you're like a professional writer I've never understood this getting in the comment dregs thing that the writers on here do anyway. Like if you're a good enough writer to be on staff here I would think you're good enough to not need snark so bad? but also like you just sent a stake out on someone of course you're…

why you so mad tho you working on the snow day

oh wait p.s. yeah it was a strip club and not disney world but it was my birthday! that's why I was excited! feminists not allowed to be excited on birthdays

Strip Club Idiot here!

THIS.

YES. A huge crowd of drunk female customers with $40 each is pretty much the polar opposite of "safe people" in a strip club. They're mostly known for touching, groping boobs, getting too noisy, and trying to climb onstage like it's a freaking truckstop amateur night.

Yeah I also found it funny the letter writer assumed strippers would see a huge crowd of drunk women as "SAFE PEOPLE", especially since my stripper friends have often complained women customers are the worst tippers and the worst at thinking it's okay to touch/grope strippers because "we're all girls here" or some…

From what I understand, women tend to be grabby as HELL. Like those chicks who grope other women's boobs without permission because "Gawd, don't be so uptight, we've all got them."

And seriously, aren't they already paying the strippers in respect? Who cares about paying rent when you have the satisfaction of being surrounded by "safe people" who feel adequately guilty about appropriating the male gaze?

To our male oppressor/friends: We don't want to be sexualized by you, subjected to the male gaze, or ANY kind of sexual objectification, but STRIPPERS ARE LITERALLY THERE TO BE HOT AND ADMIRED LIKE OMG!!! Make sure you bring $40 too because strippers deserve mad respect.

Oh my goddess.

Trust me, I'm at heart a no-fun second-wave Dworkin-esque feminist and in my daytime hours I am liable to obsess over the problematic nature of ANY kind of sexual objectification.

I absolutely understand that. Amendments have no effect on private behavior. But this is freedom of the press and freedom of speech, and that involves the government. Furthermore, Muslims in particular are very clear that they have no problem trying pass laws to enforce their bullsh*t sharia/blasphemy laws even in…

HEY. HEY, DID YOU KNOW THAT EVEN THOUGH IN THE PAST SHE HAS SLEPT WITH LENNY KRAVITZ, SHE IS NOW SLEEPING WITH JASON MOMOA?

speaking of which, doesn't she seem like she'd be boring in bed?

No, it has nothing to do with being American, that's the only part of your comment that makes any sense. As free humans, living in democracies that uphold freedom of speech, we have the right to make stuff which people may find offensive. And the offended parties have a right to respond with words. No one has the…

Rubbish. Being offended is an opinion of an individual. You have as much right to be offended as the offender has to offend you. It's called freedom. The irony is that extremists function very happily in free societies because they are free. So everyone benefits. We don't get to decide the rules of what is offensive.…

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