I don’t know what you’re saving for at the moment, but if you can manage without big expenses I say get that shit paaaaiiiiiiid! Fuck load debt, add a gold star to your credit score, and put yourself in a sweet financial position when it comes to getting a mortgage loan, car, massive cat castle with a drawbridge, etc.

So I cut out sugar from my diet but fell off the wagon after having a fight with my Mom. I guess I am an emotional eater. So no sugar to a high sugar snack and I actually notice a difference in my mood. I had always thought having a sugar high was just an expression/overexaggeration but I really am all zippy and high…

The internet isn’t why some people don’t like condoms. Neither is porn.

What an asshole. Clothes! Imagine! Oh yeah I forgot, sex workers are all brainless bimbos who exist in fantasy mode 24/7. They aren't moms or writers or college students or activists or partners or friends. Just a collection of holes, tarted up for your amusement. Fuck this guy.

Just found out my wife’s been cheating for eight fucking years. Marriage pretty much done. Haven’t pulled the trigger yet on divorce but kinda have too.

I’ve been cheated on, and had to break off an engagement because of it. I will never, under any circumstance, put up with cheating. Getting cheated on is such a miserable, soul-crushing thing to have happen. It murdered my self esteem for years. I know that may seem pretty dramatic, but it was terrible.

I’ve been on this earth for a lot longer than you and from what I’ve seen everyone would rather know. Nothing like wasting years of your life on someone who lies to you.

I think the thing is, you never get to decide for another person whether or not they’d “rather know” or “rather not.” I don’t know how I’d react if my partner told me he was cheating — whether I would want to work it out, whether I’d need a break, etc. I might be really unhappy knowing. But he doesn’t get to pick for…

Secret-keeping proponents counter that confessing only serves to lessen your guilt by putting the weight on your partner’s shoulders—it’s selfish in a different kind of way.

Of course people can’t handle it. That’s why they break up with your cheating ass. Which is exactly the choice they deserve to make. Don’t deprive people that choice by lying to them to cover your own ass.

From a strictly scientific standpoint, it is an interesting question.

Where did he get the money to do all of this? That clinic looks huge! That website looks legit! I wish he could have just used his love for medicine in a positive way by - say - getting a medical degree and actually being licensed to practice it.

My response to the Adele thing was The Grammys don’t know how to do sound for people who actually know how to sing anymore.

The Gaga tribute was everything I feared: Messy, off-key, all image and no music, all about her. MEH at best, insulting at worst. Sorry, Bowie. You were a legend and you got an extended Gaga For Intel commercial. You deserved a hell of a lot better.

Eh, I got married because I got pregnant, at 20. We married after our son was born when we were 21 and 22. Lots of hardships, to say the least. We learned (after the fact) that guests actually took bets as to how long our marriage would last. Six months was at the top end with a few being generous at one year. We are…

I suspect you might know a lot of folks in relationships where one person cheated, and they stayed together and didn’t cheat again. Those folks just might not be sharing you every detail of their personal lives.

Any parent/ guardian Jezzies out there make their kids Valentine’s this year? My 4 year old specifically requested “zombie” valentines which we obviously weren’t able to find at any store, haha. I ordered some gummy brains on Amazon, bought a clipart zombie cat on Etsy, and used my Silhouette to put it all together:

In 1940, my grandparents got married. It was the first marriage, and first real relationship, for both of them.

The father probably feels like he could be helping others by sharing his regret. I am not sure how much it will help, but if it makes him feel better in this awful time, why not?