I don’t think that’s inherently bad as long as the reasoning behind doesn’t somehow incorporate homophobia or transphobia into it. Others may have differing opinions, though. If you weren’t open to dating a woman who was post-op, I don’t think you can really get around that being transphobic since there’s no…

I, personally, am bisexual and a big believer in the notion that we’ll all one day be sexually free enough that everyone will recognize their existence on a sexuality spectrum rather than a line with two poles. But I also don’t think this means that no one will have preferences. If you just don’t find penises sexually…

I mean, I don’t think sexual dimorphism is what it used to be in humans. There are intersex people (people who possess neither purely “male” or purely “female” sex organs/sexual characteristics), and as gender equity increases, physical and athletic differences between men and women have also decreased over time. But…

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not being interested in sex with someone you’re not attracted to. I’d only say homophobia played a part if you rejected the idea of sex with someone you were attracted to because their gender/sex didn’t match your criteria for a person you thought you would or should be…

Some trans people might still use that, but the LGBT+ community I’m part of of has rejected the use of the terminology in that way, for humans. Mostly they continue to acknowledge the difference between gender and sex, but do not describe types of bodies as inherently “male” or “female,” since those things still have…

I expect to receive links to all of them.

Well, transwomen weren’t at any point male. They were at all points female, but with what we’ve traditionally considered to be male genitalia. My general feeling is that if you get with someone and you find out they have external genitalia and it’s a problem for you, you can tell them that you’re not comfortable…

That. is not. what sexism. is.

You are literally too stupid to insult. Please go tally up the times I’ve said an individual man is not responsible for the negative things he faces as a result of patriarchy, but that men as a whole are responsible for the existence of the system that oppresses him. I will fucking wait.

No, fuck you for blaming women for the injustices that men face as the result of an institution created by men that systematically oppresses women. Fuck you for taking zero responsibility when it’s inconvenient for you. Fuck you for equating legitimate injustices with problems you made up on the fly. Fuck you for not…

Why don’t you look up the proportion of male vs. female doctors who perform circumcisions. Now look it up before 1970.

Don’t even fuck around. Every couple I know who had their child circumcised, a husband or doctor made that decision. Historically, this would have been true in every case. A bris could only be conducted by a man. Men are generally the ones who get to pick what happens with their child’s dicks. Even the…

Who had the power to order and perform that circumcision?

Yes, it did bother me. I told them to stop. They would stop and then they would occasionally do it again some time later and say they forgot. Not sure if they actually forgot and it was some weird habit they’d gotten into in previous relationships, or they were just testing boundaries.

Basically what’s happening right now is that we’re both looking at a dog. You’re telling me it’s a cat, I’m telling you it’s not a cat, and you’re accusing me of calling it a turtle.

Yeah bro, literally none of that is in any way what I said. What I said is that it’s not SEXISM.

Amen.

I did have an ex who liked to grab my nose sometimes? I think they thought it was cute?

I find it appropriate pretty much only when someone is actually leading me somewhere. If we’re in a crowded place, I don’t know where we’re going, and someone I’m with wants to guide me by the small of my back or pull me by the hand, it’s fine so long as I’m receptive. But most of the time, it reads like broadcasting…

I’m in a same-sex relationship, and I do feel the same way.