I have been meaning to watch that for a few years, although I am afraid it would give me a rage stroke.

You have more than all the right in the world to out him. He deserves it. I wonder if there is someone you could talk to before hand who could give you advice on what to do (like temporarily blocking social media, etc.) if he has a lot of followers.

To be clear, I am specifically curious about how he got cleared by a panel of doctors during the Title IX investigation https://deadspin.com/michigan-state-cant-bury-its-role-in-the-largest-sex-ab-1821129797

Definitely. Particularly because this culture of politeness and never making a scene is more associated with more-educated, wealthier white folks, who tend to be more liberal and “allies”. To give a gross generalization, a WASP is not going to get in a bar fight with a redneck. They will just sniff disapprovingly into…

I always try to point this out to people, but they just say it was so long ago it doesn’t matter.

God, nothing infuriated me more than all those Facebooks memes about our poor homeless veterans. I was like “You assholes are the ones who want to cut funding for our own poor people! Don’t start crying now.”

Well, these same people want girls to get married at 18 and start popping out kids for God’s army.

I watch a lot of Law and Order, so I am pretty much an expert.

Whoops. Missed that minor detail.

What I don’t understand about the investigation was whether or not this was a legitimate medical treatment in some cases. Both Michigan and USGA seemed to know he was doing this to some extent but thought it was legitimate? But I have read contradictory commentary from doctors - like this is only ever legitimate for…

I enjoyed them and I am sure it was cathartic for the victims. It just made me nervous that it somehow would help Nassar appeal the verdict because of an unfair trial or bias or something. I am not a lawyer so I don’t know if there is any basis for this fear.

I feel like it has been getting major coverage from the NYT and CNN in the last two weeks, but not from the start.

I know nothing about him beyond mainstream gossip, but the more I read, the more I get the sense he has some sort of personality disorder. My ex-BFF went from from a majorly sex-positive straight woman who talked about dicks all the time, to celibate, to a lesbian. Not that this trajectory is uncommon or weird in and…

We always want the cookie.

Are you me? Same scenario here. Husband got horrible flu, turned into pneumonia. His coworkers and I had some headaches, body aches, dry cough and sore throat, but never got a fever. He was the only one who didn’t get a flu shot.

You know what really got me today was reading that in so many case the parents were actually in the room when this was happening, but he positioned his body and towel in a way that they couldn’t tell he was penetrating their child. Clearly not informed consent.

Aaaaaaahhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!

It is a little awkward here, because I live in a rural New England area, and the only white women I know who are Trump voters are my cleaning lady and my kids old nanny. They definitely are open-minded, but not frequent voters, and are like “Well, I believe X liberal policy sounds good, but my husband says that Trump…

There has always been a disconnect between the number of people who have been victims of rape or sexual abuse, and the number of men who say they don’t know anyone who is a rapist. I generally attribute it to obliviousness, but what with Cosby, Weinstein and Nassar, I am starting to wonder if a handful of guys are…

I am white, and would never have guessed that she was black. Upon learning it though, then I can see it. I think who you were raised by probably has a lot to do with it. Like my BFF for many years is very, very light-skinned and when her hair is straightened is pretty ambiguous. Yet she was raised by two black…