Many of the women who refused him and/or were raped by him had their careers’ trashed anyway.

Yeah, it just seems like a way to make a lot of people in the audience pretty uncomfortable. But that is her right.

I honestly don’t think I would make that trade. While Trump can and has and will do awful things, ultimately he is one man and electing HRC wouldn’t mean that a R wouldn’t be elected the next time around. I am hoping that this wave of allegations and firing will be a mostly permanent, moderate change in how things…

As a white person, I don’t know who would be cool with it, but obviously someone is or they wouldn’t have come up with the idea. I thought we were pretty much divided up between people who live in the country where we don’t have to worry about people stealing packages off our stoop, and people living in cities who…

I honestly think I didn’t understand this until the first time I was trying to get pregnant. Like, “Wait, the first two weeks of pregnancy are actually before you are even pregnant?” I am sure I learned it fifteen years earlier in sex ed but it didn’t really sink in.

I’ve been wondering what the interaction is between them being smeared as crazy, vs. the ones who have been so traumatized they act out and speak out whereas the ones who may have suffered to a lesser extent being able to bottle it up and carry on. But I also don’t want to make any judgement about how individuals…

God, I showed my daughter “On the Good Ship Lollipop” on youtube a couple of years ago. After it finished, I was like “What the f*ck did I just watch!!!!”

Um, given all the #metoo stuff going on, Uncle Willy’s corn on a stick seems a little sicker.

I think it is important that I speak out in solidarity with you, no matter the risk to me and my family.

I was assuming that he was talking about the Peace Corps volunteers who got dressed up for the fancy event, but I’m not sure.

I have had drunk sex with people I certainly wouldn’t have slept with sober, but I was aware and okay with it while it was happening. That was a very different experience than when a guy invited himself in to talk and then I passed out and awoke on another bed with him inside me. I was not okay with it at the time,…

I guess what has got me thinking the most while watching men’s reactions is not so much what I remember doing in the past, but the fact that I may have done something and not even remember it.

Even the older women on social media I think face a harder slog to say #metoo. Probably give a lot less f&cks, but at the same time, there was so much more shit that was considered acceptable and much more shaming for the victims. I know my mom’s first cousin was raped when they were traveling Europe together in the…

No, you are not bad for passing the buck. You don’t need everyone identifying you by your trauma if you don’t wish it. As I said in another post, I was having panic attacks until I shared, mostly because this internal conflict over whether or not I should say anything, as opposed to any panic attacks over past…

Didn’t he get all Method with Streep during Kramer v. Kramer. Not assaulting her, but taunting her about her recently deceased boyfriend to get “real” emotion from her.

Exactly. I reject that as my definition. Also, I blocked my parents and in-laws from being able to see my post.

This doesn’t freak me out, but I am terrified of heights and still scarred by just the knowledge that the following hotel exists:

Holy shit, I could not jump out of a car going at 60 mph.

This is definitely my instant Cream of Wheat technique :)

Even though I almost always give victims the benefit of the doubt, I am sometimes a bit suspicious when something blatantly awful happens, like the Duke rape case, or the Rolling Stone rape fiasco, or the professor from Barnard (?) who hung a noose on her own door, or the girl who carved BO on her own face. Like,…