And then when the boss, who will keep his job, gets the slap on the wrist. He will make your life or your entire group's life as much hell as possible. Saying "Have you been losing weight? Skinny looks good on you!" one time is not workplace harassment.

So people should be in trouble just for saying to a co-worker: "Did you get a haircut?" or "That's a nice shirt, where did you get that?" I mean really think about what you're saying:

Then don't complain when your male boss gives a promotion to another female in your office because she doesn't complain about complement and is a nice person overall.

So a man isn't even allowed to complement you on having a great workout? Some people are just trying to be nice and you feel you are entitled to berate him about it? I know when I needed motivation for working out, I would complement men and women for a good run, a good lifting session or a good basketball game. Maybe…