Completely fine, he’s a consenting adult. My cousin (38) recently started dating someone (27) and at first she felt guilty, but he’s into it, and she hasn’t had much luck with men her own age. She decided she’s not going to get in her own way, when the age-appropriate guys she’s dated have been awful, and the kid has…

I really enjoyed the movie Austenland. It’s silly and fun, and the Mr. Darcy was character floated my boat, plus I liked Kerri Russell in it.

Aidan Turner. That is all.

My big accomplishment this week was using a key to open a beer when I was opener-less.

Your life won’t suck forever and ever, even if it sucks for a little while right now. I found there wasn’t a moment when I suddenly knew what I wanted to do, but I did drop out of university once, and all wasn’t lost. Going to see the uni counselling service was helpful. I hope things look up soon!

OMG I’m so behind the times. Are we on the 4th wave?

YAAAAAAAS! I’m not against porn. I’m not even against there being some representations of women being objectified or acted upon (we all have different kinks, and our fantasies aren’t reality), my problem is that it’s almost all of porn. Even if it’s produced with consenting adults, only having one type of…

Chances are there are things your kid will never want to see, too.

I think porn itself isn’t the problem, but that the overwhelming majority of straight porn caters to men, and a particular pov of how straight sex should be.

Or at least have discussions with teens about porn having as much relationship to IRL sex as reality tv has to reality. And also consent.

I find straight porn extremely unsexy, because I’m so turned off by whatever is happening to the woman. It’s definitely not my kink.

Most Canadian song ever:

You’re a prince among straight white cis men.

DILF

Thank you!

I just got an account and I’ve been figuring it out. I’ve opted to keep kinja and IRL separate, so my twitter is 100% jezebel. After today I decided I should stop procrastinating, just in case. Hopefully SNS will live on for a good long while. I’m still coping with the end of The Toast!

You on twinja?

I’m usually a peaceful person, but I wish the boys involved were outed and the other kids in their schools spent the rest of school year finding every possible opportunity to hit them in the nads.

same!

Dude, they’re all on twitter and snap chat and askfm and probably apps we olds haven’t heard of yet. I notice that the crest for her school is covered up at least.