Okay I can concede that there can be pockets of rape culture. that frat example is pretty good example but feminists portray it as a broad cultural phenomenon that permeates all of american culture.

and I think your example proves that that is not the case. People see that type of language and behavior and they find it…

"The idea is that there are more subtle ways in which people's beliefs can contribute to a culture that tends to put an inordinate amount of responsibility on victims of rape. This could be accusing a victim of being irresponsible for dressing a certain way, hanging out in the wrong area, sending mixed signals, etc...…

I was already familiar with the statistics they linked.

oh my... the violence against me... I better call the police you just committed an act of violence, against a transwoman no less, whos transphobic now.

(ps: if I come across as mocking, it's because I am you just throw around words like misogynistic and transphobic…

most feminists aren't interested in having conversations with people who disagree.

Does the fact that a woman who raped a boy got pregnant was able to successfully sue for child support prove that there is a rape culture against men?

and if we're being honest I think the case for rape culture existing in terms of male…

I am sorry for your experience, I am also sorry for the people on here who are questioning your gender.

I may not agree fully with what nobody2016 is saying but your comment is offensive and totally out of line. Way to prove the point that some feminists will attack when they don't agree with what someone says that's different.

drinking to much and passing out... in a frat house.

I think everyone can agree this is a bad idea. this in no way justifies rape, all I'm saying is that it is a poor decision that put yourself in danger.

similarly I would imagine if you have a stack of hundreds and you're counting them on the subway when its crowded,…

well a lot of women fear men, even more so when they're alone with them, see them on the street etc, I believe this to be because of feminist misinformation and fear mongering about men.

so peoples feelings on the subject don't really prove it. I think that if rape culture actually existed we would see very very light…

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my beef is that I don't think calling a transwoman a man is an act of violence. Thats it. That makes me transphobic? in that case you disagreeing with me makes YOU transphobic. (obviously it doesn't )

thats also the worst analogy I've ever heard.

if the fact that there are victims of a crime proves that there is a…

does the fact that women get lighter sentences than men for the same crimes prove there is an "anti male culture"?

every view and stance I hold is a result of me losing a debate or finding out that I was wrong. my views change with the logic and evidence. So yes I am interested.

people victim blame for all types of crimes, why is there only a 'culture' for rape?

if you're walking down the street with a burlap sack full of money with dollar signs on the bags and you get mugged, is it good that you were mugged? No.

should you have been mugged? No
is it okay that you were mugged? No
is mugging now…

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anecdotal…

whats the onus on you to prove that rape culture exists? because you claim it exists... the burden of proof is on you.

A.) the fact that rape happens does not prove we have rape culture.
B.) no, I didnt say that at all thats a fucking ridiculous interpretation.

let me restate it for you.
I want proof for rape culture, I dont accept lived experiences as evidence for 2 reasons.

1.) my lived experiences arent evidence against it.
2.)…

how am I misogynistic or transphobic? I would like clear examples please.

Also the fact that people are victims of sexual violence does not prove rape culture any more than the fact that people are victims of murder proves we have a murder culture.

I didn't try to make it about me or my experiences.

I wanted proof of rape culture and said I dont accept lived experiences as proof. Secondly, you fucking asked me what experiences I was talking about. Dont fucking ask if you dont want to know. Dont fucking ask and then say I'm derailing because I gave you what you…

statistics is huge amounts of data of lived experience, one lived experience is not evidence.

Secondly I don't deny peoples lived experiences, I just don't accept them as proof of things like rape culture or patriarchy. Just like my experiences dont disprove those things. This is called being rational and consistent.

the way feminists describe it, its a culture in which rape is normal acceptable and justified (in the minds of the people in the culture, rape is never justified in reality.)

are there places in the west where rape culture exists? yeah prisons.

other than that I just dont see it and I dont see any evidence for it, and…

No I wasn't sexually assaulted, I was falsely accused of sexual assault, then as a result physically assaulted (aka got the shit kicked out of me.)

At the time I was living as a man I was 19, I'm a transwoman.

Don't see how being falsely accused of sexual violence and then nobody believing me and everyone believing the…