I’d..... wait for that letter, either way.

I’d also like to add that she needs to document the affair and talk to a lawyer asap. Her and her child’s financial security depends upon it. Is her state no fault divorce? There are all sorts of variables depending upon where she lives that will factor in.

I agree. Getting out at 7 months pregnant seems like an impossibly difficult task, but imagine how much harder it will be with a newborn...who then turns into an infant...and then a toddler...and then a preschooler...a kid has pressing needs at every age, and with a kid, getting out of a shitty marriage is going to…

Jane is terrible at this. And when I read that bit about foisting child rearing on him to punish him for cheating, my jaw dropped. Cause that’s really the relationship you want to foster between your child and its father.

spend your time researching how to file yourself

Damn this is good

Exactly. The advice about her foisting child rearing for a newborn on him is garbage. He’s not invested in the relationship. If his lady can’t move to him, he WILL move to her, and if LW thinks he’s going to put in his work as a father, let him prove it otherwise.

LW2: I agree you don’t have to announce how long it’s been since you’ve dated. The good news is that the dating pool in your age range is full of guys who don’t know what to do on a date, either, because they’re fairly recently divorced. (The bad news is the same thing.) I would suggest mentioning an interest in…

Yeah, that was my suspicion as well. Not too many guys are willing to jerk off long-distance for five years without ever trying to meet in person. It may not have actually happened, but I 100% guarantee he tried to make it happen.

LW 1: GET OUT. Do not listen to this advice here and get out now. It’s not going to get better.

Hey, nowhere there does it instruct you to be black. No idea where Bennett got the idea he could do that.

I am 32 and will defend to the death the double-space after periods. It looks cleaner to me.

Because they aren’t using the legal definition of defamation, which requires false and malicious statements, they’re using the police definition, which is “he dared to question us in any way.”

Sure. You don’t like something, you point out its flaws and fix it and make it better. That’s real patriotism. Getting your hands dirty and airing out the dirty laundry. Sitting back with blinders on and blindly believing the USA is “the greatest country on Earth” is not patriotism.

I’m not sure when the military and police decided they had exclusive claim to the American Flag and the National Anthem, but it’s long past time we put them in their place. Kneeling during the Anthem is not disrespecting military service. The Anthem represents our country, not the military. Our flag does not represent…

Bullshit. He wasn’t the only person in the area that was fleeing. He was illegally stopped, detained and threatened with a firearm for one reason. Don’t pretend you don’t know why. We all know why.

Yeah, it’s totally suspicious when you respond to a call about gunshots and find people running away and ducking behind cover.

So wait...you’re telling me Michael Bennett had the audacity to run away and hide when he thought there was an active shooter in the area? If only he had followed the standard law enforcement advice on what to do if there’s an active shooter.

Hiding in the slots and bolting at the wrong time in a way that catches the eyes of officials is what Michael Bennett does for a living.

How long of a suspension is appropriate for a football player baselessly being accused of defamation?