YES!

really? that’s amazing!

Honestly? When I’m with a partner, it takes longer than being on my own. This is not a result of any inability on my partner’s part, more just the reality of him not knowing my body as well as I know it. I’d say, with good communication and comfort between both of you, aim for 30 minutes. Might get there in 20.

I think, perhaps from the female perspective, it’s the difference between:

Define “good porn.”

Asking as a woman- is 5 minutes really short? How short would be “typically short” versus “Wow! That was short!”

You’re a woman :D

I am desperate to know what his niche is....

I 100% recommend Marshalls and TJMaxx. I found a great Michael Kors leather bag, a big, beautiful black tote, that was marked down to super clearance for about $100. That was more than I was thinking of spending, but it will last me for years and it’s a HOT bag.

Do you understand that conflict and shame do not need to be acted out on other people?

Genuinely curious- what do you mean by ‘unsubstantiated’? Do you mean witnessed by other people? Because, I don’t think Cosby raped women in public. He had a very specific MO, which included getting the women alone in a bedroom/hotel room.

THIS.

On another note, am I the only woman who is feeling genuine fear at the thought of random, hyper concerned cis men trolling public bathrooms? If some dude with a camera, for ANY REASON, came into my toilet...that’s not ok.

It’s like that old commercial!

thank you!

That last point is a big one.

That’s great!

What changes did you make that you have stuck with? (If you don’t mind sharing)

That’s interesting.

So what’s the best approach for maintaining weight loss?