That woman is a misandrist snipe. Not only is she saying that boys and men are mind-bendingly insecure, she's saying that to have value they must suffer violence. Fail.

They already do all that. Scary dudes are just relentless, and blocking them pisses some of them off more.

What if the woman really, really wants to pay for herself? I did that when I was dating because I didn't want there to be any sort of dynamic of me owing anything to the man (scary), or any feeling of potential sex happening being an exchange (icky), or any feeling of me using the man (guilty). What's wrong with that?

To have agency and choices.

What would your reaction be if a woman approached you?

I suggest this too, as a woman who has tried both strategies.

My roommate says gal.

What percentage of women are princessy? Like 10%?

I love how they want to make marriage soooooooo attractive. #FamilyValues

They would be generally aware that the act does occur, though, if they had previously consented to sleep sex?

One rule and one rule only, taught to male people from birth: the world is yours to fuck.

Thank you so much! Bookmarked.

Now it is, to account for the people whose natural reaction to trauma is to dissociate. Dissociation is the "freeze" response of the fight-flight-or-freeze response, and people literally can't say no if they're too dissociated. Tendency to dissociate is partially genetic, and can increase in response to traumatic…

Isn't the point of blueberries that they're basically drugs?

Request: lip stain. Back in like, middle school, the Body Shop sold lip stain that you would paint on in several layers, letting it dry each time, that would last for three days. I think it was some kind of hyper-concentrated berry dye? I hate myself for using it all. You would just stain them every three days, and…

My understanding is that you should choose between washing your hair every day and using a shampoo with sulfates. Sulfates are just too harsh for every day. I have waist-length mermaid hair, by the way.

And yes, I thought he was scary. The way he asked me made it seem wrong, and he was an off-putting strange man.

I did not know. I asked my parents soon after.

Because of what is essentially jury nullification on behalf of the rapist. Not enough people would think the punishment fit the crime, and because rapists are often people society feels sympathy for due to the higher social status that leads to the rapist's feelings of entitlement (to sex), that shit would never get…

Why not have the rational discussions in mainstream spaces?