That’s what great about him, he was supposed to look big an tough, and intimidating, and he went by Goldberg. That has to be near the top of least intimidating wrestler names ever.

You do touch on a really important marital secret, and that is laughing at, and giving each other good natured shit about, each other’s dreams. I had a dream about a co-worker once and my wife used to mess with me all the time about it, like she’d call and my secretary would tell her that this particular co-worker and…

I thought that was your entry for weirdest sex dream, you’d have had a good chance

What implicit relationship to white supremacy? White privilege is one thing, but are you saying just because they are white they are connected to white supremacy?

I think that is why people struggle with stories like this, people want a clear villain/victim situation, it’s tougher when the relationship is toxic and both are, in some way/at some point, in the wrong. Real life is messy and not that simple

Are you saying women haven’t been oppressed?

Well after all,“Spinoff!” Is there any word more thrilling to the human soul?

I was at a rush week party, considering joining because college experience reasons and..probably just because of Animal House, to be honest. I brought this really cute girl I had been fawning over since move in week when I saw her struggling with furniture and helped her move some stuff into her dorm room. I was so…

Starred your post, though I’m realizing I am biased because I love your name

That is exactly what she said happened, that he held her down and kept going after she used her safe word. That makes him a piece of shit

I’ll take an honest asshole over a deceptive one any day, the ones you have to worry about the most are the ones who put on a reasonable disguise and blend in, they can do the most damage

What I hate is how often with the likes of Penn or Sheen and so many others is it gets written off as them being a “bad boy.” It just gets lumped in with their other bad behavior, as if it’s no different than philandering or going on a bender. They weren’t weren’t being “bad boys” they were fucking abusive

Yeah I was in and out of that thread, at first I was impressed and thought people were trying their best while discussing an issue that is personal and potentially painful, but then BAM! that commentor went there with it. I thought the other party handled themself really well though, that was impressive self control…

So are you saying that all women who enjoy giving up power feel that way because they are succumbing to institutionalized sexism telling them they should, rather than that is just what they are into? I just want to clarify

I think the problem is that you personalize other people’s fantasies. You say they are being turned on by what happened to you, but they aren’t. What happened to you or anyone in real life is violent and awful, and you are right that there is something disgusting and vile about being aroused by a real person’s real…

Thanks for saying this about kink. I get so tired of people trying to point to BDSM and say “well if that’s what they are into there must be something wrong with them.” And I don’t like when I see it stated as I did earlier that if men and women enjoy this, or really any dom/sub situation, that it’s because they are…

If your point is that porn has influenced a lot of guys to be jerks by showing guys being jerks and getting rewarded for it, I will give you that. But that is bigger than just BDSM. And it isn’t fair to say that all women in BDSM are giving in to some kind of societal programming, a lot of women like it for the same…

Have you come across a lot of assholes like that? Can you get a guy blackballed if several women speak up? I know he’s popular and probably would get away with more, but what about if Joe Randomcock pulls some similar bullshit?

My point is simply that not every woman into it has a negative reason (personal issues to work through, for example) some enjoy it on perfectly healthy levels. Also, men who engage in BDSM are not automatically “feeding the negative cultural climate that effects all women.” Some are doing nothing more than engaging in…

But if you acknowledge that some fantasies are merely about giving up power, then you know they are not all about violence against women and that it’s nuanced