mr. lurker and I at one point had a “stalkers, pedophiles and deviants wedding playlist” all planned out. You really can put a sizable list together of things that seem to end up on wedding DJ playlists that you really shouldn’t want playing on your wedding day.

I was perusing The Knot today and they recommended Danzig’s “Mother” as a great mother/son dance, as well as “Mother” by Pink Floyd. It’s as if they just typed the word mother into Spotify without actually listening to them.

Indeed I would also put “born in the USA” on the list too because after that people don’t bother listening to the rest of the lyrics.

I’m convinced that a large percentage of the population has poor listening comprehension.

talk of previous violent incidents, expression of paranoia, overreaction to workplace changes, unstable/emotional responses, feeling of arrogance/supremacy, intense anger/hostility, violations of policy, exploiting/blaming others

I lost a lot of weight a few years ago. It had and has many benefits, but the part where I was suddenly on men’s radar again really isn’t one of them.

I am so glad to be an Old now. All our lives, we’re told that we’ll become invisible at 40, only to find out that being invisible is THE BEST.

We have to plan our days around not getting raped/harassed just as much as we have to consider traffic and weather.

I hate that this is a truth of being a woman.

He wants to be dazzling, he wants to be rainbow high.

They should have asked him for his SAG card in return.

Yes, you are making perfect sense. ;-)

This is my response as well.

This is why men shouldn’t be allowed to serve in the military. They can’t stop themselves from sexually harassing their colleagues, so they should stay at home where they belong rather, than degrading the nearly spiritual glue that enables the infantry to achieve the illogical and endure the unendurable.

Requiem for a Dream. Not only soul-crushingly sad but that final montage of all of them hitting rock bottom genuinely freaked me the fuck out the first time I saw it. I’m not easily rattled at all and my mouth was wide open and I was hiding behind my pillow as I watched.

Now the MRAs are running around saying that ball kicking is worst than childbirth. Which is ridiculous.

I’ll reserve my judgement until I know what he was wearing.

Then men should keep their knees together.

He should be, just like how Chelsea Clinton should have been off-limits, and Sasha and Malia Obama.

Also fair point. I think many of the criticisms of Trump are fair. However, while not completely off-limits, his minor kid should be mostly off limits.