Men have such high opinions of themselves until it comes to things they don’t want to do. Then it becomes “oh I can’t sweep the kitchen, I don’t know how”

Actual words from my actual ex.

OK how bout this, and hear me out...

No.

Alright, flip this around. If the husband needs to be asked to do these things, then maybe the wife also shouldn’t have to do anything unless she’s asked. So, the only time anything gets done in the house is when a spouse is asked (first one to get asked I guess) to get a specific thing done. This sounds like a…

It seems like the dude is the one who decided to passive-aggressively never clean anything ever.

News Flash ladies “YOU HAVE TO ASK!” i’d say that most men will do something if asked.

Bullshit. I’m a man, and what you’re asking for is for us to not have to do anything unless someone explicitly tells us to -while at the same time- expecting women to notice and do it on their own just because it has to be done every day. You’re not an idiot and neither am I, right? Just because we’re men we’re not…

Wes, I am a man, and you are completely wrong for faulting women for saying, “I shouldn’t have to ask!” Why is it the woman’s responsibility to tell her grown adult partner what needs to be done around the house? Justify that! You can’t!

This is a very bad take. Grownups need to manage their spaces, especially if they are shared, just like they manage other adult tasks (paying taxes, car maintenance, etc.). We don’t have bosses dolling out tasks and timelines for these other example chores, they are just part of adulthood. There is nothing magical…

So when men live on their own they have to hire a woman to come in, check for dirty dishes and smelly laundry, and ask him to clean it? Or does being loved by a woman who agreed to build a life with you physically destroy the part of your brain that makes you realize dirty clothes should be washed?

The point is not having to ask. If I have to ask you to deal with the giant, growing pile of dishes, then I have become your mother. An adult human should look at that pile of dishes they contributed to and go ‘well, fuck, we need to do the dishes’ AND DO THEM.

I would make the argument that, if the dishes are piling up like this to the point where anyone with working eyes see they obviously need to be cleaned, then yes, she shouldn’t have to ask.

No explination.

if you’re not comfortable as being perceived as a MAGA Nazi, maybe you aren’t as comfortable with your racism as you claim.

You know that even if you don’t believe a single word you’ve said on this thread (giving you the benefit of the doubt), you’re still a bad person, right?

“So that I can still be looked upon as a MAGA Nazi by internet snowflake liberal arts dropouts like yourself?”

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Uh if you knew more than the one black person at your job you’d know that we have a wide variety of names. I mean it could be worse I could be name ESPN, Dakota, Chad or any of the other stupid ass names you all have given your kids. As for the Popeye’s Chicken Sandwich last time I checked white people eat fried…

We’re not asking you to stab your bosses, grandfathers, and girlfriends with a broadsword when they display signs of prejudice.

Would also add a disclaimer: Do all of this to be better but know that you will occasionally fail - can’t shed light on every blind spot. If you do fail pick your ass up and try to be better tomorrow - none of that teary-eyed, victim-flipping, ego stroking shit: own your shit and keep trying to be better. Also: no…

SWP is a term I’m gonna hold on to.