Ah, the Katy Perry quote. It just gets me every time. You can be a feminist and love men, Katy. You can be a feminist and love women. Or kiteboarding. Or heated car seats. Or the smell of gardenias. Or rugby. Or monogrammed towels. Or karaoke nights. Or a nice, off-dry Gewurtztraminer. Or spray cheese. Or mild S&M. Or…