OMG this!!! Why the fuck do people say this??? If I was just gay I’d have a girlfriend! Gay people have relationships!! I seriously never understood this one - it’s this weird intersection of homophobia and fear of singleness.

Your article really speaks to me. I’m 47 years old now, and I’ve been in a relationship for almost three years, but from the time I was 20 to the beginning of this relationship at age 44 I was single. I missed having that intimacy but after one relationship when I was young where I didn’t really love him, I was really…

Same here (well, except for the smoking); I don’t do much of anything with my skin, eat on-again-off-again healthy, and that’s it. I’m 48 and look about 15 years younger. But I got fabulous genes from my Dad’s side - his Mom was regularly mistaken for his sister - and I’m Japanese on my Mom’s side so that’s how I…

Don’t take the things people are saying personally. Everyone is angry, shellshocked, and scared. We’re all grieving in our own way. Peace.

It feels like a lot of the people who are supporting him are the same ones who are actually offended about anyone talking about sex. It doesn’t bother them that he talked about forcing women, it’s about the goddam words he used. Then again, these are the same people who think it’s acceptable to try to control whether…

Thanks. That makes me feel much better - human survival would be nice, but the idea of all life on earth dying out because of us is devastating.

Yeah, but will we? Isn’t there a tipping point in green house emissions beyond which the Earth becomes another Venus? Any brainy science types out there know if this is a real possibility or just my paranoid fear?

What. The flaming fuck??! I can’t believe this is real... except that I can. Holy moly!!!

It’s nothing more than terrible breeding. Pit bulls used to be considered “nanny dogs” because they were so calm tempered and good natured.

No, it’s real. A friend of mine was on the show and it was exactly as SheeshTheseNames describes it. Assistants comb through cases and find the “juiciest” ones. They give you money though - you get to keep the money regardless of whether you win or lose, and this is why my friend did it. The show fits into the worst…

I don’t watch her because I detest her brand of nasty-minded judginess, but a fried of mine made the mistake of going onto her show. JJ didn’t listen to either of them, didn’t try to get to the truth, basically just did her best to make them both out to be jerks. She was shocked at how unfair JJ was but honestly, what…

That baby oil prank is awesome!

Is your Dad my grandfather??? Seriously though, I totally commiserate. :(

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA wow. It's pretty obvious that you are really not familiar with the way things work here.

Why do most white supremacists look like crack heads??? “Do you want to look like shit? Become a white supremacist!"

I feel like this is why French women look so fabulous while American women tend to look like try-hards. "Ooh! I MUST wear what everyone says is in!!" Or "flattering" or whatever. French women seem to wear what makes them feeeeeel beautiful. Since I started asking myself what makes me feel good to wear, that's when I…

What they authorities are doing in North Dakota is an old trick of oppressive rulers: intimidation through repressive legal action. At the same time that ND is bringing criminal charges to everyone who’s participated in the protest, you have public police officers standing by while peaceful protesters are attacked…

I’m shocked and really saddened by this. I’ve never been but have friends who go (used to go?) From what they said it was the one time of the year that they felt they were with “their people.” For freaks like us it’s lovely to have a real community, even if it’s only temporary. What a shame it's been ruined.

Probably because stuff in boxes and jars, whether frozen concentrate or not, has lost all of it’s natural flavor, regardless of whether it's from concentrate or not. Nothing will ever beat fresh squeezed.

I don’t think it’s actually cheaper to rent than own. She couldn’t afford the East Village, where she rented. She couldn’t even own in Williamsburg which, even though it’s pretty much fully gentrified, is still cheaper than the Village. Then again, with the way the market keeps going up and up, paying a mortgage (plus…