John Mayer has this air of desperation.

Thank you for writing this. All of the comments made about people with disabilities being "helpless" were really getting under my skin for exactly the reasons you state.

There are plenty of people who are disabled who have nobody to care for them. No family. No spouse. Does that seem like an ideal situation? Of course not. Do people with disabilities make it work? Most do. That's what humans do. We cope with the shit life hands us. Suggesting someone with a disability is "subservient"…

I agree she should have been communicating with him and working through the situation instead of cheating and then hoping for the best. It's also a bad thing for people to feel pressured into opening their relationship. If that's not a situation that's freely entered into by both parties then it's a meaningless…

I don't think why someone cheats is relevant. The point is that they ended up discussing it and working out a solution that keeps them both content in the relationship.

I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing that! I second the suggestion that he see a doctor about the situation. Also, have a conversation, express how important this is to you, and discuss ways he can be intimate with you even if he doesn't feel sexual desire. E.g., he could touch you while you get yourself off or…

Terrible person realizes she was a terrible person and continues being a terrible person (just in a different way).

A better analogy to makeup is clothing. Your clothes conceal imperfections and display your style. I don't see anything wrong with that. As someone said, you can tell if someone is wearing makeup. You can also tell if someone is wearing clothes. It's not a secret or a lie.

I'm not sure how Arkansas handles relinquishment of parental rights but if they were under "threats of possible abandonment charges" then maybe it was because they were ABANDONING THEIR CHILDREN. Was that not a hint to them? You don't adopt a child and then give them away. They're not a puppy. (And for fuck's sake,…

Yes! I have a lot of fun when I'm using high quality makeup whereas poor quality stuff makes me frustrated and want to cry. That said, there is cheap high quality makeup but the hunt becomes much more challenging.