In their defence it really is a military/police thing.

This lady lacks reading comprehension. What I read is that pamphlets featuring women should stop being glamour shots and be more realistic. The things he was saying about pretty = incompetent in the eyes of some are not fun to think about but they are true

That is a bad photo to use though. When I see a picture of a female in combat gear with make up on I certainly don't think "now there's a competent warrior I want to fight with". No I think "hey there's another fucking pogue who has no idea how to use their weapon and will start bitching about how heavy their body…

That's a fair point, but in those circumstances I think it's more worthwhile to look at why someone from a particular group is more likely to engage in specific (in this case assy) behaviour rather than just flat out calling them (and in the case of the video, their entire group) an asshole.

Ugh, that was a total trigger. I had that happen to me once. Attractive guy came up to me in a bookstore and asked me out. I said no and that I had a boyfriend. He was ok about it, said he'd just moved to town, etc. We continued to talk and then he started to reveal my movements of the last couple of days and where I…

I'll bet they honestly think they're nice guys, too, and complain that they're too nice and that's why they don't get women.

I don't relate to it because I'm considered unattractive by the vanilla hetero bar scene, and have never had anyone buy me a drink. This means I'm not a girl (and probably not a human) to them. Which is why they can call this scene "Girls Being Assholes" and I'm like... who's being what now?

~constantly demand to be brought giant glasses of water. scowl when asked to bring him a giant glass of water.
~i can't think of anything else. i'm incredibly charming.

This is hilarious. Buy a sense of humor, ladies. It is, however, misnamed. It should be called "Some Girls are Shallow and Desperate" or, conversely, "Hoodies After 30: Lesson Learned."

Ugh, I fucking hate that. My favorite is when men *actually wait for my date to leave* and try to swoop in. Like, what the fuck is wrong with you?

Let's see... "friend-zoned nice guy" trope, "women used 'creeps' when they mean uninterested" trope, and "women only like handsome guys" trope. I'm going to call it the 1980s-style minsogynst hat trick. Sometimes women aren't interested in you, hoodie Jeff. That's not because they're idiots and you're insightful and…

Her WHAT a bitch?

Not making yourself sexually available to someone = being a terrible human.

I've come to understand that a lot of (not all, not even most, but a lot of) skinny people really don't understand people volume. I mean there's no reason they should. However, fat folks are confronted with it every single day. We are constantly having to do the math of how much precious Skinny People Volume we…

Your first question makes the mistake that if someone over the age of consent has sex with someone under the age of consent, it is by definition not consensual sex, and therefore can be considered rape in the court of public opinion. If they are both underage, I believe that it should be addressed by professionals,…

Waiters are paid less than minimum wage on the assumption that they will get tips during their shifts.

I'm assuming the whiteness is so jarring that nobody even knows what to say?

I've been pronouncing it like it was a digimon.

I think the issue, Tabitha, is that no one is forcing you to be a Catholic, and it seems strange that you decide to remain a Catholic while disapproving of the leadership. It's not like politics where you essentially have two viable options. There are a lot of other Jesus-centric sects you can join, with a wide…