I don’t see how you can have different views on abortion rights, race rights, anything to do with feminism, different sexual orientation rights and still be happy. Like I don’t fit the average sexual orientation, I’m also from an non caucasian background and I’m a woman. If someone disagreed with me on the above…

I won’t be watching it either, seems like something that leaves you unnecessarily disturbed for days. Yeah thats what we all really need from our entertainment.

I just believe in fairness and equality and if that isnt there, then it aint worth it. Not really a highway situation.

No that’s called emotional labour. I don’t believe in this male/female brain crap. I think men just have been able to get away with not doing much for longer and they will keep doing it, especially since so many women just put up with while simmering with resentment.

I often think catherine zeta jones at her peak was amazingly beautiful.

Well i would think differing political views/values/beleifs would be a one way road to divorce but whatever i guess.

I honestly can’t see how women stay in relationships with men who have differing views on racism/sexism/etc etc. I would leave in 5 seconds.

I know it seems the least drama prone, energy efficient choice out there.

Seriously I think its just trendy right now, cant wait for it to end. So many naturally monogamous people ( who are easily the majority) slurp this poly stuff up when deep down they have a thousand issues with it. Because being cool and edgy yet fitting in is sooooo important. Can’t wait till the counter-poly movement…

I wish hairiness could become acceptable though, it would solve half my self consciousness issues.

Is the huge age difference between the couple canon, or was it just put in there because?

Yeah im surprised this point isn’t a lot higher up. Also the age difference between the 2 characters, like did they have this huge difference in the book, or is it just hollywood being perverse again?

Yeah but why is it on women that the bulk of these duties fall on (because sexism). I don’t think a relationship where i automaticaly end up doing more household tasks or even have to plan and delegate them is at all fair. i would be intensely unhappy in such a situation and it would probably end in the relationship…

You could say conversation is higher than sex, considering a million decisions have to be made through conversation....whether buying house, or moving a city...sex not so much, just a thing on the side for entertainment, not that important.

It is not a need at all. One can live without it. If you were stuck on a deserted island you need food, water, air. You do not need sex. Its just a want up there with a chocolate fondue and a beach holiday, it is not a need. And the sooner we as a society move past that mindset the healthier all relationships will be.

Yeah nah, washing dishes or vaccuming is not up there with someone inserting themselves into your body. That’s wayyyyy too invasive, so in no way is sex on the same level and cannot be treated as such. I would also walk out of a relationship without thinking twice if someone tried to force/manipulate any sex on me. I…

I’m going to have to disagree with sex being a need. If I was trapped on a deserted island I would NEED food, NEED water, NEED sleep. Sex, not at all. It is not a need, it is a want, up there with wanting a good movie, or wanting a decent tv show. Its entertainment nothing more. For it to be classified as a need is…

Its not a “need”, its a want. Sex is nowhere on the same table as needing to breathe, eat and sleep.

As an asexual woman, where can I find this man??

This. Exactly this. I came to this realisation around 2013 when i was in my early twenties. I realised it was ALL of them. Not some of them, not some crappy minority, not even a vast majority, just ALL of them. To this day I have never met a man who didn’t display some form of sexist behaviours, thoughts and actions…