hmm right and you didn't dump him, so he keeps on saying the same 'ol same 'ol.

Since it's tough to find a support group sometimes, you can also do a lot of reading - materials such as "He's Just Not Up Anymore" on Amazon are just one of many examples of books catered to women in your position. You can get insights on what may be going on and find information that will help you cope with the…

If he doesn't go to therapy and make big efforts to read/study tons of books to get past this issue, then, long story short, he's not capable of being intimate and can't be with a normal human being such as yourself. No intelligent person should be make making jokes or trying to shame/dismiss you or your husband for…

(I understand, but...) As an astrophysics enthusiast, it was never just a "trend" to me, and I wish I could have nebula prints all over my life, literally. There were never enough Christopher Kane knockoffs made in good quality styles anyway, nearly all of them sucked or were made in tiny Asian market sizes in…

It's not just the swimwear that sells out, try just finding work clothes above a size 8 in NYC. All the stores will be out of stock, and the sales people will tell you that all the larger sizes sell out immediately — this goes for J Crew, Ann Taylor, you name it. Brands would be making more money if they made more…

As much as I appreciate all of these attractive, "nice" actors (and singers), this looks like garbage and I'm sick of this type of crap. Over-animated black airport security guy.. sigh. Paula Patton in a role that requires no talent, yet she still looks forced reciting her lines.. sigh. They all deserve better and we…

Sade, YES YES YES YES YES THANK YOU! Thank you for every line of this piece! I am black too, or African American, or brown, or whatever the hell it is, I'm human, and I agree with you, and I've been really annoyed about the lack of products that address brown skinned people. It's 2013 and I'm sick of the crap! I…

amazing

This episode was one of his most obvious showings of NPD/High-Functioning psychopathy. He really spelled it out this time. I felt like I was reliving my childhood experiences with my own dad, in the movie theater, watching films back-to-back and enjoying candy while cranky-ole'-mom is off elsewhere dealing with stuff.…

GODAMMIT!!!! I was already feeling tingly and then you had to put my fiance up here. deep breaths* fanning myself*

genius

Like many things, this can be a disorder for some people, but not for others. It can trigger bad behavior for some, or legitimately help others launch a healthier long term pattern. I'm speaking as an experienced juicer, and the benefits are amazing, but I have asked myself this question too.

Christian = statistically more likely to be less educated. The more education people get, stats show that they turn away from identifying as religious. We are saying the same thing, just under different terms.

She's perfect and she's beautiful, as they all are. This is outrageous. What is the world coming to? I wish I could shut the media down for 20 years so everyone could recalibrate to what nature intended us to be - normal, healthy human beings who come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and are beautiful and perfect no…

in awe right now at the pant situation ....

I'd rather see a study done (somehow) with 5000 men and women, interacting physically in the same location, over the course of 2 weeks. Yeah I know it's unlikely. But I've noticed some men know exactly what a woman is feeling through the "atmosphere" more so than looking at a facial expression.

nicely done

exactly

At no point did I say those criteria were a definitive predictor. It's interesting that you decided to read it that way. Please read it again. Your pain is showing, and I can relate, totally, which I why I want you to consider how you interpreted my comment. But you know, as most people do, that statistically, African…

there is no doubt empathy is on the decline for younger generations (it has been shown in a number of studies that college kids today are much less empathetic than students were in the 70's for example.) All of our systems are run and slowly corrupted by psycho/sociopaths and NPDs, from the banking system to the…