Anyone who DOESN’T believe Paul Verhoeven did this has simply missed his entire filmography.

uh it’s pretty clear that the panties thing was just an excuse because he wanted the vulva shot. And when you’re on set and already shooting, the lone woman surrounded by men, you probably feel pressured to just go along rather than hold up the whole production by demanding someone go find you some flesh-coloured…

Better yet: just wash your own dish.  Individually, right before you use it.

Don’t blink.. Start buying disposable plates and utinsels. 

This guy killed a bunch of Asian massage parlor workers, then drove all the way across town, past all of the strip clubs IN ATLANTA, and murdered a bunch of other Asians. But yeah, it was motivated by sex addiction, not racism.

THIS. I think strikes like this are actually more effective at showing people the consequences of their actions/inactions.

So when men live on their own they have to hire a woman to come in, check for dirty dishes and smelly laundry, and ask him to clean it? Or does being loved by a woman who agreed to build a life with you physically destroy the part of your brain that makes you realize dirty clothes should be washed?

I am not one for violence, but as a sexual assault survivor I want to knock his fucking teeth out for this statement alone. “Real victims” (-gag-) already have difficulty getting justice so anything she does or does not do will not suddenly make it all better for our chance of justice, despite his assertions. Also,…

The point is not having to ask. If I have to ask you to deal with the giant, growing pile of dishes, then I have become your mother. An adult human should look at that pile of dishes they contributed to and go ‘well, fuck, we need to do the dishes’ AND DO THEM.

That’s what it is! I’m on a cleaning strike! And so is my husband! Solidarity in cleaning strikes! 

I would make the argument that, if the dishes are piling up like this to the point where anyone with working eyes see they obviously need to be cleaned, then yes, she shouldn’t have to ask.

I’m sure she initially went into their relationship with consent; but she was f*cking 20 and probably not well versed in BDSM and I bet he took advantage of this and then gaslight her that she “agreed to this”

I have a disabled husband, a 22 YO full time college student and part time grocery worker, and I don’t think I could go on without my angel coming every 2 weeks. She is my goddamn lifeline.

What action should be taken after you have reminded the husband/BF/any child that they need to rinse if needed, put in the dishwasher, and if the DW is clean, EMPTY the thing and then load. 1000 times. 

My husband wouldn’t do this but my 16 year old daughter could live for years like this, I am convinced. Maybe she’d start stealing food from stores or begging meals from friends, but her resolve is far stronger than anyone else’s in the house. 

I showed the thread to my boyfriend so he feels ashamed the next time he leaves a cereal bowl on the counter LOL.

IDK this seems real to me!

I feel this woman to the depth of my bones. 

I know this all too well. My best friend, for the last 34 years is exactly the person you described. High school was so much fun, but then, “It” started around college, when it was me just rolling my eyes at some of the guys she would date, or the fact she was going to parties on random days during the week and…

This. Loyalty doesn’t mean not challenging dumb or destructive things you do or want to do.
Anyone who would dump a dog in a field would, I sense, metaphorically dump their friend in a field as well.