It does not bother me at all to say that Perez Hilton is a jerk and I feel bad that I ever read his website in the first place. 

It would take over a week’s worth of pages to go into all the horrible things a lot of us saw Perez Hilton say and post about Spears when she was in a full-blown breakdown. Put it this way....everyone in the media treated Britney’s situation as fodder for entertainment and laughs. So imagine even those people looking…

I ask myself every year since season 4...

(But seriously....what would actually be effective punishment for a Trump or a Sorokin?)

Of COURSE she’s right. And prison simply hasn’t ever been designed to prevent these behaviors from recurring. It makes us feel better that the bad people get put in a bad place, and no one is made to interrogate what that actually means or why that’s something we want.

I think that her statement can be true and yet also flippant and remorseless. While prisons definitely need a massive overhaul and shift away from punishment and toward individualized rehabilitation, this particular woman is such a piece of work that I translate her little diatribe to: “Well, there was nothing in it…

Everyone involved in this debacle should be ashamed and of course no one will be.

Um, that’s nice, but where is Perez Hilton’s apology to the world at large for his entire existence?

Perez Hilton needs to apologize to humanity for being Perez Hilton.

I saw a commercial for American Idol and my jaw dripped when the girl said she was Claudia Conway. My brain locked up and it was one of those moments when you’re not sure what is real. Did I hear that wrong? Are they really going to do this? WTF is happening? Well...now I know. Everyone involved in this debacle…

He deserves to live on whatever the opposite of Themyscira is.

Perez should fuck off, why is he still a thing?

I was in my freshmen year of college when the Clinton scandal begin. My roommate and I did the math and realized that Lewinsky wasn’t a whole lot older than us, who were still basically kids. The realization that nobody was in her corner was responsible for crushing a lot of my youthful idealism and general faith in…

Two words for all of you people who think this is somehow a new phenomenon for your righteous anger.

2003-2015 was a sleazy time in America. Reality TV reached its’ zenith with how outrageous it could be, mean “humor” was cool, and that’s why Perez Hilton had any relevancy. Trashy, sexually charged stuff was in vogue.

As I read this stuff coming out about Whedon, one of aspects of the story that I keep thinking about is Gal Gadot and her response to the Fisher thing. For context, she spoke about standing with Fisher, as did Jason Momoa, and alleged that there was an incident with with Whedon that she had to address by going to the…

It is still astounding to me (and a testament to the deep, deep misogyny of our culture), that Janet Jackson’s career was so profoundly impacted by that moment. This woman, who reigned as pop ROYALTY for the two preceding decades - and one split-second nip-slip took her down.

I have two exes who have, continually over the years, tried to contact me through various online platforms. If I don’t answer you on one site (to the point of even blocking one of them), what makes you think I want to hear your apology on another?

So your main takeaway from her post is that she writes funny, not that there was some (at the least) creepy shit going on that they had to make a rule like that in the first place? She was like 14 years old.

The thing about apologies from past abusers is that they are usually for the abuser. The abuser went to therapy and realized they did something wrong, the abuser feels bad and reaches out to the person they victimized. What in that scenario is about the victim? What if the victim doesn’t desire an apology and contact…