Never thought about the adjustments. It's been so long since I was on bc, at least 17 years because I got a tubal the day after my youngest was born. Best decision ever. I can't remember if I had any bad reactions, but I'm sure I would remember if it was bad enough. I was weepy though for the first week or so after…

It worked super well for me. But I never had any issues with hormonal birth control other than some mild bloating and a little acne. I don't recall getting that on Depo though.

Depo Provera worked great for me, with the added benefit of not having a period and getting it every three months.

Reclipsen has been good to me. I don't feel too crazypants on it.

I've been on a few kinds and it's really about what works best with your body. I have to take pills that are one steady hormone level throughout the month. Ortho Tri Cyclen was too much of a roller coaster for me. Yasmin gave me awful yeast infections. I'm currently on a generic called Zovia that doesn't give me any…

I fucking love Martha Stewart for shit like this. She just... owns being Martha Stewart. I wonder if she's ever uttered, "Bitch, please."

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Just wanted to jump in and warn of possible silly reaction from Dude. Sounds like you have experience, but some guys are super sensitive about threats to their perceived "masculinity" (or lack thereof). He may simply have less interest in sex? And it's different right, he can't just fake it, he has to be into to it to…

I think I'm all screamed out. Months of couples therapy will do that to you. Thanks for the recommendations!

I can't speak for all guys but I always loved it when my lady partner initiated. It made me feel wanted and did nothing but increase my desire to reciprocate. The times that I didn't initiate when I probably should have were because I felt like she might think I was too focused on the physical aspect of the…

Girl, you need what you need. Don't apologize for that. Do you think you could have an open conversation about your sex drives? Sometimes just clearing the air helps. Mister Periwinkle isn't as much of a sexmonkey as I am, and that can be difficult at times (Oh Wahl massager, how I love you) because it can feel like…

I also say initiate! My partner has reservations about instigating sex too frequently (in his opinion) for his own reasons, but is usually up for it if I'm in the mood. And I instigated most of the sexytimes when we started dating, and it was merry happy bliss for both of us. Just go for it!

No you're not being a crazy sex maniac! But you should initiate it. This guy isn't those guys.

Call the girlfriend. I would absolutely want to know. Even though it's in vengance, she should absolutely know if he's sleeping around.

Yesterday night, me and my guys were hanging out at someone's house, around a fire and we were drinking. We started talking about the Ray Rice incident, and for the first time ever, I disclosed my rape and abusive relationship to my friends.

All I can hear in my head is Scott Pilgrim, "I have to pee. Pee time."

I have kept pet rats for approx. 10 years. I've had rats bigger than this dog. No kidding.

As do I. I love dogs, have worked with a rescue group, have two adopted rescue dogs, and donate money to rescue groups regularly. I really love dogs. But this poor little guy. Overbred, tiny as a mouse, and now has to live with Paris Hilton? Wrong on several levels.

That's not a dog. That's a rat with a blow-out.