It’s ok! It really helps to hear other perspectives. I’m sorry for the way your situation went. It sounds like she really took advantage of the care you gave, and that’s really shitty.

Awesome, thank you.

Just wrote back!

Well we have plans for the holidays, so I want to see those through. And I need some time to prepare financially in the event that we just want different things. There are extenuating circumstances as to why we don’t have sex, and the fact that he’s seeing a therapist with me is heartening. I know he wants me to be…

It’s the worst!!! I’m sorry you’re in it too 😳

I mean, we’ve been together for over two years so we are definitely close. I’m going to save and prepare but also just focus on the good aspects and know that whatever happens, I’ll have a good friend.

I’ve read it. And watched it. Many times. I’m 32, he’s a few years older. He was the one who asked me out initially and the one who asked me to move in with him. I hate that I’ve gotten myself into this spot, I thought I was honest about what I wanted. It feels like we have gotten to the place where we are more…

My “nasty woman” shirt came today! I wore it with the Hillary pin my mom sent me to drop off my ballot. All voted up here.

So it’s the sequel to Crazy Stupid Love?

Coyotes are rad. If one is a total dolt and was to let their tiny “dog” off leash in Runyon Canyon or Griffith Park or even up in any of the hilly parts of L.A., a coyote may very well think “Ooh, yonder there a tiny rat snack. I shall slake my hunger” and gobble it up dutifully. I hope a coyote mistakes Paris Hilton…

When I was 19 I was visiting a friend in San Francisco and we went to Cha Cha Cha for dinner. I don’t know if it was the calamari appetizer (it was probably the calamari appetizer) or what, but by the time the meal was over, I was not feeling so hot. I have only recently become comfortable using the restroom in public…

I don’t even have words for how angry this makes me. Yoga is supposed to be calming and healing and centering. It can be a path to spirituality or a way to take care of your body. For me, every once in awhile, it’s a way to feel ok about eating donuts for lunch. I hate that this man is ruining it for so many people,…

Same. I have a weekly friends night where we bring snacks and bitch about work and watch something that we can be petty and judgey about. We started with the Bachelorette last year and in the interim have moved on to and old season of Project Runway. Boyfriend usually feigns disgust at whatever is on the tv and makes…

I’ve always been curious about why their fix up radius is so small. I wish they worked in other cities, I love me some shiplap.

What are you talking about?? It looks AMAZING. I. Can’t. Fucking. Wait.

A guttural roar ripped itself from my throat and hurled itself at the tv when he said that bit.

This is currently a trend in my Instagram feed...#suckitdonny

There is a teeny tiny eensy weensy really absolutely minuscule part of me that is fed up with Trump to the point where I WANT him to get elected. Just so that he will finally have some grasp of how difficult this job is and how he has absolutely no clue about what he’s doing. Granted, he would probably never admit as…

Oy to the vey. What babies. Comedians use current events as material ALL of the times and we are less than a month away from the election. SHEESH. Now I have to go try to unroll my eyes, but they might be stuck.

Blargh I forgot it was Saturday so I’m late to the party.