Mine too. I truly wonder if anyone but a woman would understand this feeling.

Vomiting on command is the world’s worst superpower. It’s like you and the sea cucumber, who vomits its intestines onto things when it’s frightened.

Oh good lord my comfort is PARAMOUNT and I take great pains to ensure that I am always comfortable.

pretending to enjoy going to clubs.
shitty music, douchey bros, overpriced drinks, and I’ve finally come to terms with the fact that it’s perfectly okay that I don’t dance.
do. not. dance.

Indoor malls but especially Hot Topic; Outdoor festivals where $20 worth of tickets buys me one turkey leg and a small lemonade; not returning high-end makeup that doesn’t do exactly what it claims to do; apologizing for unshorn legs; internet dates.

You have my full agreement in noting that the masses are not educated on the matter of cultural appropriation. As I said to bonjourbotox I push for a strengthen and enriched curriculum surrounding racism and especially racism in America.

I am currently reading Jon Krakauer’s Missoula, his excellent investigation into a series of rapes in this college town in Montana, and an essential primer about the state of rape in America. And what you say is exactly why experts claim that 80% of rapes go unreported. The intense physical trauma, the fact that most…

Don’t dance with guys in bars just in case they rape you. If you danced with them, you obviously want sex.

And this is why there are millions of untested rape kits in the US.

And do you know that I left that morning, pretended everything was fine, just going to grab a coffee, and went right to the police (this was a few yrs ago when I was still living in NYC), but when I got there, the whole place was middle-aged, chubby men mulling around. Though I’m an attorney and a pretty savvy, put…

I was, too, had one drink, and I most definitely made out with the guy as - wait for it - I was dating him! That did not mean I wanted to be violently choked, dragged around, shown rough porn and used without protection for an entire overnight like I was.

And the footage from when she leaves the bathroom looks a hell of a lot more like she’s trying to get him away from her and also having some difficulty standing. The whole “they go to the bathroom together” thing could be the result of a whole slew of other things like: A) he offered her coke or something, which,…

I was roofied once and I’m pretty sure at some point I made out with the dude who roofied me. I had half a drink and then everything else is a blur until I woke up half naked in this asshole’s bed. I was like - uh, where am I and who the hell are you? I thought it was an embarrassing slutty night until I realized…

The CCTV tapes show clearly that the alleged victim was seen kissing at the bar with the employee and was seen entering the bathroom of her own free will. It shows a 90 percent chance it was consensual behavior.

Here’s my useless opinion. There is a LOT of information to sort through here. I sincerely hope that the investigation is thorough, and that fair and proper justice is doled out based on its findings. Having said all that. You hear stories like this and whether or not this woman was raped or not, it doesn’t change the…

I completely agree about the widest possible interpretation being both untenable and impractical. It’s well-meant, but the idea of white progressives scanning a crowd for cultural symbols and then analyzing the features or skin tone of the wearer to determine the authenticity of the wearing is...it’s…

Oh, I’m afraid it’s not nearly as interesting as you might hope. I suppose it’s that I’m beginning to find the notion of “appropriation” a bit too murky to be useful. If the use of a cultural symbol is fetishizing, for example, then that use is racist. Whether someone has the “right” to the symbol is subjective.

And all y’all bitches said vaccines weren’t dangerous. WHO’S LAUGHING NOW?!

Manuel Ferrara for me.

Gangbang is too far down the list and scissoring is too high.