It's fine to be sexual after having kids. But as a parent, you also have a responsibility that's more important than yourself: Your own kids. No one is saying hide your sexuality. But if you shout to the world, blog about it on a daily basis, or have sex on camera (I.e. pornstar), don't be shocked if your kids come…

I love how all these commenters are looking down their noses at you, absolutely clueless that you've been a starred/hearted/kinja'd/whatevered contributor since 2007. Good lord. For the record, people: Jan has kids, has been building this community since you were in jr. high and was IMHO only pointing out that…

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Eh, I agree with you. It seems gimmicky and desperately provocative in way that reflects our Internet micro-celebrity obsessed culture while trying to capitalize on some vague sense of sex-positivity and third wave empowerment. And regardless of whether it's ethically right, you are correct that her kids will…

I would rather orgasm than need to take a pill for panic attacks.

Like, thinking everything any woman ever does is a fantastic idea? I also don't think this is necessarily a bad idea, provided she actually talks to her kids about her blog rather than the have the scenario I described played out.

I am sure her kids will love hearing about her blog when their classmates are old enough to find it.

Was it the iron-worker who was a secret libertarian

Also, in all fairness to Target, I think one of those vibrating cartoon toothbrushes gave me my first orgasm.

The 50 Shades sex toy merch are next to the Lip Smackers end cap at my Target.

Maybe I'm a wanton hussy, but #eggplantfriday was the only thing about instagram that ever intrigued me. Sad days.

Yeah.... She wrote a thing that people found worthy of recognition. This is a woman whose sexual transgression when she was super young became the butt of jokes for a decade. I might not like her, but I think it's kind of cool that she's finally able to bounce back and finally be recognized for something that isn't a…

Given the current state of magazine journalismism, she cannot possibly be the worst feature writer in the industry. After all, Time and its kin still exist.

For a feminist blog, there's a lot of weird energy in this headline. I think this information could have been presented more tactfully, or without the bitchy overtones. I'm sure I'm banned for saying this, but this is gross.

I dunno, I feel bad for Monica and hope she does well.

Could you maybe stop being sarcastic for five minutes so we know what you're actually trying to say?

This is America, where every candidate for office must do at least one photo op with a hunting rifle.

Many, many things seem fake about it.

A woman gives birth and you run an article about how weird it is because, obviously, the only appropriate thing is to have one child at at time. Anything else is some kind of horror or sci-fi movie. Is this one of the days when Jezebel claims it's not a feminist space? I lose track.

Of course. I actually do a lot of teaching, so feel free to get back at me if you ever have questions about nont-traditional academic stuff.