This is so wrong. You keep a wash cloth under your butt so you don’t get sore from the hard tub, drain a lil water, add some fresh hot agua, hit a bong rip, and press play on Netflix. Baths are meant to be two-hour affairs.

I'm so glad you knew that. We have enough self-blame, even if it's misguided.

We didn’t. And quite frankly, after my first miscarriage I found out that so many of my friends ( with kids) had them and it made me feel a lot less hopeless. I’ve got a ten month old son now (he was born 5 days before the anniversary of finding out about my miscarriage) and I feel like I appreciate everything so much…

Thank you. You would think with an etopic people would be less likely to suggest but someone in my family already told me it was cause I hadn’t been off of birth control long enough. It was 3 months and she wasn’t even aware of how long to begin with. Luckily I knew she was full of shit.

Can I ask how old you were during the successful pregnancies? 

I am feeling less alone because of this thread. I hope you are, too.

I’m sorry for your loss. I’m part of the unfortunate club, too. I did Cytotec for the first and a D&C for the second. I’m really glad you were able to get the care you needed.

I had so many people tell me after my miscarriage that I can “Just adopt” or it was “God’s will.” 

Fuck. I'm so sorry. 

I’m so very sorry.

Be kind to yourself and have a glass of wine if you want one.

I am so sorry.

Oh my sweet soul, I am so sorry. Very gentle internet stranger hugs.

Oh, words just seem so empty, but it’s all I’ve got.  I’m so very sorry to hear this.  {{{hugs}}}

I’m so sorry 😔

I’m so sorry. That happened to me in my second trimester. But, I went on to have two sons. Please allow yourself to grieve. Peace and light to you.

I’m so sorry. I’ve been through it twice this year. It was absolutely crushing, heartbreaking, devastating, take your pick of horrible words. Take care of yourself.

Hang in there. You must feel awful and if it helps we all feel for you. 

My sympathy to you and your family. These kinds of disappointments are very hard to bear. I hope you have an effective and large circle of support as you recover from this loss. :-( So sorry. <3

I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine your pain right now. Be gentle to yourself as you work through everything.