You didn’t ghost him. Ghosting is when the recipient has no earthly idea why there’s no more contact. You made it clear to him throughout your relationship and as it was ending what you needed from him and he didn’t provide that/wasn’t willing to see your perspective or change. The consequence was that he no longer…

I second a couple other comments up thread. Once you’re done saving, save a little more. Everyone I know who buys forgets about closing costs or has some major repair five minutes into ownership. I’m saving myself for a condo and plan on buying two months after I’ve saved everything I’ll need. That way I’ll have a…

I from Southern California, but now live in a place with seasons and I hate the cold. I’ve had weights for more than 10 years, but now own a spin bike so that I don’t have to worry about the weather.

We don’t need a leader, so I’m guessing that’s why you don’t see any of them as leaders. They aren’t. The mobs that elected the Orange Sphincter through the electoral college need a leader because they can’t think for themselves. You seem like a critical thinker who can make your own decisions given well-examined…

Go Heels! Man, I’ve been gone for awhile. Is that view of the hospitals or science buildings?

Nice shoes!

Ooh fun! I’m not on Facebook, so I had no idea this was a thing.

I’m an old, too - 39. I watched the first season, my mom got rid of cable after that. Even I knew the original Real World line-up because it was just that important.

I had never heard of him until Search Party, but I’m now obsessed with this thing that he did with another comedian I’d never heard of, Nicole Spiezio.

Yep, I was fine until Malia started crying.

Oh, I never let my keys, wallet or child out of my sight/possession. However, when you’re going through security and you’re separated from anything that’s normally with you, that’s a different story.

No worries. And, I believe, they weren’t on air at the time. That was during a break. That’s why they’re asking the producer and whoever is on set about it.

Northridge was 1994. That’s what she’s talking about.

I’m sitting here just bawling. The world can become extremely dangerous for me in 12 days- extremely.

Girlfriends was on UPN and I think moved to the WB - not BET.

Right there with you. Many times growing up, I was the only or one of two Black girls in my classes (actually, also in grad school). I, admittedly, have both a first name and surname that are East African and some unknown last name of a weird Irish etymology, respectively. The other girls/women always had the most…

I just heard about it because I was reading Gayle King’s Twitter feed for some insane reason last week and she mentioned it.

Issa Rae’s dress is like this quilted sequins thing that is so amazing, but doesn’t really read in this photo. She killed that look. I was wondering what she’d do with her hair. Love the updo tonight. She’s been doing them so much lately, that’d I’d love to see her rock her natural fully out at one of these uptight…

I hate that hem length and don’t have any idea why it’s popular. She looks better in it than most because she can never do any wrong in my opinion - plus, she’s tall. Constance Zimmer stays on that length and I just don’t get it.

Good luck with all that. History shows that when you don’t put your kid first it doesn’t end well. What happened between adults is not the child’s problem. Parents are supposed to be bigger than that.