After all the debating, discussion, arguing, it has been a little draining. I will admit this is one of my opinions I wish it stayed in the grays and I expected it to. And I have been corrected on a few sayings which i do not mind.

(Disclaimer or warning: those that do have an STD, I do not know how tough it is for you to disclose that information and i have already hurt someone due to my words on this subject this post below and many more below may be hurtful please do not read this if you are sensitive about the subject. Some of my opinions…

Also I grantee you that women who previously had a curable std are not being honest when you ask that question.

What part of that phrasing was polite or respectful of your partner, who’s just taken the risk of disclosing their health status to you? No part of it at all. Think about that.

Are you not aware that men have herpes and women willingly have sex with them? You seem convinced that it only goes one way.

And here I thought males were on this site as well. Marlene, are you saying this is a women only website? You do know some men do come on here and you know there are also males authors on this website as well at least I think they are males their pictures and pronouns might deceive me now that i think about it......

like i said before if it becomes just insults then here is your star and good morning or evening or good day.

Any person willing to sleep with another person who has an STD and they know it is brave. I have stated it a dozen times and my opinion that will not change. They are actively risking their health or well being by doing so. If the reverse is a crime, so if someone has a certain STDs and they do not inform their…

Guess you never heard of the the meme <insert %> of all statistics are made up? No let me help you. Hence, why I said “I’m willing to give the typical“ I thought it was an obvious prefix but again snark through writing.

name calling will get you no where. If you are here for a discussion I am up for it but if not I will star you and wish you a good day or evening or morning.

During the whole rape gif thing. Use of private parts was frowned upon because they were labeling the pictures as (p...s, p...y, etc) So I try to avoid saying them even now.

The salt is real isn’t it? Can I have sex with another person and contract cancer and/or diabetes?

Not at all, I am disagreeing and people are attacking me. Not much of an education it is about what I expected hence requesting to stay in the grays.

If I currently do not have a skin condition or health problem and having sex with someone who I know has a disease which could open me up to health problems or I choose to find another woman who has no disease. I am willing to not risk it and like i said before wish the woman with the STD good luck and congratulate…

You want it to be slut shaming but it is not. It is a choice as simple as saying you like tall men or short men, I prefer women who have never had a STD. I agree there is a chance and right now (knock on wooden desk) I have been luck that each of my partners has not had the strain and after each relationship I take…

I did some reading and in other post listed websites and saw enough pictures and heard terrible youtube testimony of other men talking about genital herpes and the struggle. Long before this post nightobeisance, one of my standards is my SO can not have or had an STD if she does and so far I have only had to have this…

Hell yeah especially if your previous partners actually knew you had the STD. Brave men out there no other words to describe them.

I’ll take you out the grays even though your attacking me for stating my opinion but I am okay with that. Sorry, well no I am not, not on this. It is one of my standards, long before becoming intimate the conversation comes up on STDs if she has had or has an STD. I will wish her the best and hope she finds a partner…

Getting in a car accident is a real life crisis, dealing with a natural disaster is a real life crisis. Choosing to be sexually active with a person who tells you they have or had an STD is not a real life crisis, it is a poor decision. Whether genital herpes or oral herpes or any other form of herpes, no person in…

You are correct somewhat the carrier normally does not die nor the person who contracts it, but if you want to look at the big picture or “end game” then yes it can happen.