Can’t wait for the Jill Stein voters to say this validates their votes in 2016, and refuse to support efforts to elect Democrats in 2018, because, really, when you come right down to it, Trump’s policies don’t really affect them very much.

They don’t. It’s for sleight of hand.

Here’s the thing, you are equating one thing with another. Men having performance/anxiety issues causing them to have problems in bed is one thing. Men choosing to only focus on P in V over other forms of stimulation is another. You sound like a spurned guy with a chip on his shoulder. I don’t know if you think you…

The partners of 89% of lesbian women are able to do this. I think, “There’s no excuse to be bad at this,” is entirely warranted.

An unskilled unenthusiastic blowjob may result in YOUR orgasm, this is not true of most men I’ve known. And the article does not say amything about penetration. It says the key to giving a woman an orgasm, most of the time at least, is kissing, fingers, and oral sex. So why the fuck do you keep talking about how…

LOL who the fuck said she should be proud? Or he should be grateful. Both should try to please the other not to score points.

No. If he cares, he’ll ask during, not after. Please take note.

Conservative sex: fumble, grope, stick, male only and super guilt inducing orgasm, accusatory glaring, roll over and go to sleep.

Am I the only one who tells them when they don’t get the job done? My Type A-ness doesn’t allow me to quietly have my time wasted. If you finish and I don’t you best believe you’re hearing about it.

This is what I hear when I see that fucking haircut.

Sadly, you are right — not surprising. Hence my first comment: “This entire thread is the most Jezebel thing ever. Complete and total inability to reckon with even the most limited criticism. Yeeeeesh.”

Thank you.

You’re response to my valid question about why the system is this way is to go fuck myself? Ok, then! Feeling’s mutual. Try to be a more thoughtful person.

Learn your history. Why are women expected to change their names, but men aren’t? There’s a reason for that. You changed your name, that’s your perogative. Own what that means in our culture.

You went from the essentialist view, that the name “belongs” irrevocably to a man, to an existentialist one, where a woman “earns” it over time. And then back again to your original view! In one comment!

Names can come from anywhere and be anything! My name JUST HAPPENED to come from me keeping the status quo of taking my husbands name. It’s a total coincidence! It’s equally likely the wind could have blown on my birth certificate and rearranged the letters to spell Marva Mackerelhenny!

She made some stellar points but as soon as she said a negative thing about Beyonce (and she is fucking right about it) and marriage y’all lost the plot and can’t talk about any thing else. “Omg’ I’m getting married, ‘omg being a 24/7 feminist’, ‘omg Queen Bey’. Now you’re breaking your backs to discredit her because…

Well, first off: I know plenty of people who have their mother’s last name because there was never a man in the picture. That would include people from traditions where names change from generation to generation (I have a friend whose last name is “Brigittsdottir” for that very reason).

The wedding is the least anti-feminist thing about marriage, even if you go full traditional wedding.