Maybe they should be. We have a sex offender's registry...colleges should do the same. :/

I don't see the problem with these lists. If the men were found responsible for sexual assault by the university, that's fair public knowledge. Remember, all these people on the list have been through a hearing and been found guilty (by the university). Hacking these databases and publishing their names seems like…

Yeah, I think it's a saying, and it really means, "Doesn't want any female friends." You know, someone who has a lot of internalized misogyny and therefore prides herself on being "one of the guys." I've definitely said what JLaw did, and it's less about a headcount than about an attitude.

Absolutely. It's not black and white at all. Sometimes asshole teenagers grow up to be nice people. Maybe, if I met them now, I'd be friends some of the terribles from high school. You just can't hang your happiness on "beating" them in the future, because it's a recipe for unhappiness and forever measuring your…

Yeah, not if you go to school with a lot of rich kids. They'll get into amazing colleges despite their subpar grades and general fuckery, and then go on to make more money than you ever will. To be happy, you have to let the idea of karma go. Terrible people go on to have bright futures too.

Basic (n): someone with no personality. Nothing unusual or passionate about them. A contestant on The Bachelor (with rare exceptions).

Is that true though?? Asking...for a friend who has lost two rings (like $20 ones) and lost the stone out of another. One slipped off my hand in the ocean, the other slipped off my hand while I was just walking in the city. Does it have to do with the fact they were generic rings, and my future bands will be perfectly…

This is the first season of SNL that I've actually watched in recent memory, and I think it's because of all these great ladies.

Care to elaborate?

I dunno, I think that if you didn't know what Jezebel was, you'd still "get" the joke as being about feminist blogs and feminist activism in general.

Yeah, it's a feminist joke. As in, "She went full feminazi and accused me of raping her weekend."

Oh my god, I'm going to institute mommy-kid dance time when I'm stressed and he/she has a lot of energy.

Is it weird that I like my body on its own, but then I don't like it in comparison? For example, i was at the gym yesterday and feeling great about my run and weight lifting...and then there's always someone more fit and more thin and more conventionally attractive than I am and I feel like an ugly duckling with pit…

This (perhaps unfairly) bothers me as someone trying to get into grad school now, because she's flaunting the "rules." The "rules" being that you work hard in undergrad, take entry-level jobs in the field you want, and then gain experience and make connections. It almost seems like doing porn is an easy way out of…

Guys, I saw this when Craig from Degrassi was the male lead. And I saw his butt!

Lol, I talk to my boyfriend about babies and weddings, but can't think of the last time I had a talk like that with any lady friends (and most, if not all, of my friends are women).

I would argue she's not mature enough to be in that relationship then. She either needs to be honest about wanting an open relationship, or GTFO before marriage and kids.

Yeah, that's a good analogy too.

I would argue that cheating is less like giving into fettuccini alfredo on a no-carb diet, and more like...you can eat everything *but* fettuccini alfredo, but you go ahead and do it anyway even though you had a couple chances to leave the restaurant or order something else. I think of monogamy as hard, but not…

If they cheated, were they really happy though? I'd argue that something either only they or their partner knew was in play. I think people who are in truly healthy relationships don't cheat (non-monogamy is totally different) because that involves lying to and hurting their partner. And if you're relationship isn't…