Sometimes the cops actually are doing their job and investigating to protect everyone involved. Kaepernick is always going look at least a little stupd or lacking in judgement for getting in the middle of a situation like this but he won't have to hear ''coverup'' for the rest of his life either.

Well, it's a thorny issue and I am on a female centric site as a guy so I am still navigating that and I know there are guys here specifically to troll.

Well, I believe most people who would say that too.

Forgot the hashtag.

Shit. Sorry that happened. Yeah, I am a guy and I don't need to worry as much for my safety. I worry sometimes for the gals I see at when I am working matching guys twice their size drink for drink and such.

I wouldn't say it's ''According to Jezebel'' or all jezzies but in another conversation the other day I said I didn't believe the allegations about Woody Allen and Dylan Farrow. Some responses to me just seemed batshit. Like along the lines of ''she said it therefore it absolutely happened'' and stuff like he just…

I just noticed that name.

Wondering how long before innocuous photo op becomes talk show Obama baiting.

I dunno if it's that bad and I am just not as tech savvy as some and maybe I overplayed the creeper aspect of it. But questionnaires and what are your likes and all that don't have nearly as much real info as meeting someone IRL.

I don't think she ever said she was raped. She was babbling about Jesus and stuff - it seemed like she had a psychotic episode or something and she wanted to know why she woke up in the hospital. She ended up being involuntarily committed for a bit and given the circumstances - partying with a bunch of men in a hotel…

I went to my neighbor's Grandmother's funeral when I was a kid. I was like 8. They forced my same age friend to kiss her corpse before they closed the lid. Everyone had to kiss her but he was the youngest. Their Gran lived with them and he loved her dearly and her death effected him greatly and they made him kiss her…

I tend bar and hang out in bars a lot as well. I don't have any social media like Facebook or use dating apps. I will meet gals and talk - got gift of gab from my Mom - about whatever shit under the sun. People lie so much online anyway - you can tell a lot about someone seeing them as they really are - not posed…

I can't remember which state - I think it was Michigan - but one of these midwestern dairy states has some law on the books against selling raw milk.

Kaepernick is biracial and is a member of a mostly white family. His birth mother is white and his bio dad is African American. His parents are both white and devout Christian.

I love reading old H L Mencken stuff. His essay - On Being an American is classic and still true 90ish years later.

You're a piece of work. This has got to go down in the passive aggressive hall of fame.

'' Please stop responding, it's just annoying at this point. ''

You tell me my perception is warped, that I am in denial, that my thinking on the subject is typical, that I am being extremely sensitive to disagree with you, you tell me I am taking it too personally when you say such things, you talk down, you assert unproven accusations as irrefutable facts and Dylan Farrow is a…

That's not how sexual abuse works.

I remember my Gran giving me my first Safe Word.