Who says we don't care about victims? What the hell are you talking about?

Worked with a gal who waited tables up to her last couple of days before labor. She would run around in the back snapping towels at people and throwing ice at the prep guys like the rest of us and then at the door to the dining room, she would start huffing and puffing and walk through the floor with her hand on the…

There was a legendary bartender who wouldn't serve people he didn't like the vibe of in his bar. He would flat out tell him they looked like an asshole. He had a bunch of other weird quirks - something about the way he made his martinis. It being San Francisco, he was a local hero.

I worked for a celebrity chef. We had a dish that the Food Network, all the national and local reviewers, Anthony Bourdain etc all loved. This one guy came in and was a dick from the get go. Orders the dish which included sea urchin that is cooked by the heat of the pasta for his 12 year old child - after asking me…

You deserve a bottle of booze and a footrub.

You realize this is a feminist site, right? I mean I dunno if I would call myself a feminist but I come here for a POV I don't get on other sites. Why are you even complaining that feminist ways of seeing things prevail on a feminist site? Or that a PSA geared towards stopping violence towards women is insulting? It's…

Give it a rest. We get it. Feminism has ruined your life. The ad is not all things to all people so it's the most insulting thing ever. So what if the ad is only a call to men? Men are the biggest perpetrators of sexual assault and it's mostly against women. So they hit a double or a triple instead of the grand slam…

You realize some of us haven't had dinner yet? The idea of her playing connect the age spots with her tongue on the mottled topographic map of his saggy carcass is just.... ick

Yeah, you're kinda bonkers.

You really are being unreasonable. It doesn't gloss over what happens to men not to address it. That's like saying an ovarian cancer PSA is offensive because it doesn't address prostate cancer. Or a save the whales ad is anti siberian tiger because they aren't mentioned. You're being silly.

It's kind of an odd axe to grind. As a man, this ad bothers me not at all and I think it is good to have men talking openly about it. I guess that makes me emasculated or I need a red pill or something in your eyes.

So the PSA didn't cover all the bases, therefore it is the most insulting thing you have ever seen?

Switch to decaf, bro.

Don't bother trying not to be rude. This person is bonkers and is splitting the most minute of hairs because he chooses to be offended.

Umm.. Wow.

I think it's less directed at potential perpetrators than the bystander guy or the guy who suspects his housemate might have taken advantage of that passed out girl or something.

Daniel Craig looks drunk.

I'm with you. I think she is just more run of the mill comedy central stuff. Don't think her stuff is actually all that insightful or edgy and i find her kinda smarmy.

Umm, relevancy is like patriarchal?

Cuz white guys are like bad and stuff.